“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

My girl wants me to say "I Love You"

Ulex

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2004
Messages
28
Reaction score
0
Age
50
Location
Europe
Well, she's insisting on that ****, I dont' tell her, I just tell her that what counts is acts not words, and if I'm with her and we do things together, that speaks for itself. She gets sad and stupid nevertheless...

1st: Is my response right on a DJ point of view?

2nd: Is this a bad sign about her mental sanity?

Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

the_great_gaia

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 3, 2003
Messages
276
Reaction score
2
Location
Fort Bragg, North Carolina
Has she said she loves you first? If so, then I would say it. But only you will know if you mean it or not. Not her. Seems to me like she is insane and when you do tell her you love her, she's gonna be even more insane.. and crazy about you. You could possibly have a fatal attraction on your hands and you will see the dark-end of it, if you leave her.

She will make herself fall even harder for you if you say it and she's gonna cling onto you VERY HARD! She's gonna smother you; call you everyday; wanna be around you all the time. If you ever object to these things she wants to do, she will try to hurt you really bad. if you don't tell her that you love her. She's gonna continue to give you a problem (which was ur reason for posting, right?), when you tell her you love her, you're gonna have a good movie script on your hands. What's ur escape? If you break up with her, you can still get away.
 

~+~

Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2005
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
I say go for it. You do love her, right? She is totally into you and loves you.

But when you say it, make sure that you dont say it if she demands it out of you. Do it when the time feels right
 

NoMoreAFC

Banned
Joined
Aug 7, 2004
Messages
129
Reaction score
0
Age
50
dont say it, she wants to know that she has you in her hands, since i said that to my ex she never been the same with me, believe me mate, let her give you proofs that she really is worthy of you
 

seroph

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 9, 2005
Messages
70
Reaction score
0
Location
Massachusetts
She says "I love you" first ----
What I do in those situations is say "I know" and then wink or kiss her or something C+F. It will defintely drive her crazy later in the relationship.. so after some time say it back "i love you too".. it'll mean a great deal more when you finally say it.

You say "I love you" first ----
Don't.

1) I think your response is truthful.
2) No.

*shrugs*

Doc Love's advice on those words are here (take it or leave it):
http://www.askman.com/dating/doclove/59_relationship_expert.html
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

flyinshark

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 21, 2005
Messages
481
Reaction score
3
Location
Canada
Originally posted by Ulex
[...] I just tell her that what counts is acts not words, and if I'm with her and we do things together, that speaks for itself. [...]
I think like you, but women actually see those things reversed. They get turned on more from words more than actions, for some reason.

About the I love you part, like the guys above said, i guess there's no harm in saying it once in a while, if you feel it.

As to her mental sanity, i guess time will tell:p I hope for you she isnt a psycho..
 

DJ Hawtness

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 16, 2005
Messages
169
Reaction score
0
When she tells you she loves you, just say "I know."
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Women are self involved needy little hors which need try to con a DJ into her wicked servitude by forcing him by guilt to tell her that he loves her. If he does he will become a slave to the hor, forever an endentured servant to he emotional and physical sluttery!!!! :cuss:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 10, 2003
Messages
15,481
Reaction score
65
Location
Galt's Gulch
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Women are self involved needy little hors which need try to con a DJ into her wicked servitude by forcing him by guilt to tell her that he loves her. If he does he will become a slave to the hor, forever an indentured servant to he emotional and physical sluttery!!!! :cuss:
Holy Sh1t.... I was just channeling the ghost of PRL!!! I need a fvckin' exorcist!!!! :nervous:
 

whistler

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
633
Reaction score
5
Location
New York
Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Holy Sh1t.... I was just channeling the ghost of PRL!!! I need a fvckin' exorcist!!!! :nervous:
:crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

snintel

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jun 16, 2005
Messages
217
Reaction score
2
Originally posted by Ulex
Well, she's insisting on that ****, I dont' tell her, I just tell her that what counts is acts not words, and if I'm with her and we do things together, that speaks for itself. She gets sad and stupid nevertheless...

1st: Is my response right on a DJ point of view?

2nd: Is this a bad sign about her mental sanity?

Thanks
Actually the actions not words philosophy is mine too. I think it's lame that people have to SAY it... it should be things they do that show if you love someone.

Definitely dont do it when she demands you say it. If you decide you want to say it, say it randomly, not after she demands it and you look like her lapdog.
 
Top