"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My girl loves me but left me because shes been hurt

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To the original poster.....you heard of Gabrielle Union right? In the movie, Deliver Us From Eva, she told LL Cool J, "Love is not some disease that infects you, it's a choice...."

You need to understand, BE MORE SEXUAL AND SEDUCTIVE....leave the Fred Flintstone happy family shyt for when you two have BUILT to that point.

Guys rush the relationship building part tooooo fast, it must built, just have sex with her.

You don't QUIT A BUSINESS that's "too good" or "too successful." That's like me telling Beyonce, "Baby...you just too sexy for me, I don't deserve you." Shyttt.....

She's no longer physically attracted to you, and she'll say whatever man, I mean, you're 21...grow up.

If you want further assistance pm me...because this is soooo far back and low on the scale, it's not even worth discussing. There's a million things wrong here.
 

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TESV: you've done the right thing this past year by moving on with your life and not bugging and calling her to convince her to come back. Do you see what effect that has on the female mind? Good work.

As you see, the posters were right last year. Moving on is the ONLY policy when dumped, no matter what you want.

Enjoy this sex while you can. Now that she has your attention again, it won't be long. You mainly got her back from hurting her Ego, not raising her interest. She’ll flake out the moment she thinks she has you back, so have fun.
 

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If you really believe what you are saying and don't think she is just making an excuse to ditch you, then have a look at this thread. It looks like a lot of guys have had the same kind of problems......

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=89048
 

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So we'll see you in a couple of weeks when she's blowing someone else, then?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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