"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My girl loves me but left me because shes been hurt

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJuanForever

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To the original poster.....you heard of Gabrielle Union right? In the movie, Deliver Us From Eva, she told LL Cool J, "Love is not some disease that infects you, it's a choice...."

You need to understand, BE MORE SEXUAL AND SEDUCTIVE....leave the Fred Flintstone happy family shyt for when you two have BUILT to that point.

Guys rush the relationship building part tooooo fast, it must built, just have sex with her.

You don't QUIT A BUSINESS that's "too good" or "too successful." That's like me telling Beyonce, "Baby...you just too sexy for me, I don't deserve you." Shyttt.....

She's no longer physically attracted to you, and she'll say whatever man, I mean, you're 21...grow up.

If you want further assistance pm me...because this is soooo far back and low on the scale, it's not even worth discussing. There's a million things wrong here.
 
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TESV: you've done the right thing this past year by moving on with your life and not bugging and calling her to convince her to come back. Do you see what effect that has on the female mind? Good work.

As you see, the posters were right last year. Moving on is the ONLY policy when dumped, no matter what you want.

Enjoy this sex while you can. Now that she has your attention again, it won't be long. You mainly got her back from hurting her Ego, not raising her interest. She’ll flake out the moment she thinks she has you back, so have fun.
 
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If you really believe what you are saying and don't think she is just making an excuse to ditch you, then have a look at this thread. It looks like a lot of guys have had the same kind of problems......

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=89048
 
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So we'll see you in a couple of weeks when she's blowing someone else, then?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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