"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My girl just took plan B.

sozzz

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Sup guys. Long story short. I thought I pulled out too late so I went out and bought plan B for her to take.

Now i'm worried if she will be able to have babies in the future, cuz she wants to have babies later on. I don't know much about plan B pills, so if anyone is more knowledgeable in that catergory, please share.

The PROS and CONS of plan B?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She will be able to have kids in the future, you shouldn't worry about that.

What you should be worrying about: You are kind of setting yourself up to get screwed if pulling out is the only method of birth control you are using. It isn't really all that effective. If you keep rolling the dice, she will eventually get preggo.
 

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If she will be able to have kids in the future, then how come girls just take plan b everytime their man stick it in? Or is plan b not that effective?

Is taking too many plan B bad? Like i said, I'm not familiar with female materials.
 

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sozzz said:
Is taking too many plan B bad? Like i said, I'm not familiar with female materials.
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CONDOMS... USE THEM!!!!
 

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So is plan B effective of preventing pregnancy or what? Condoms is boring, doesn't feel as nice as without.

How about birth control, are those effective?

Please share some information on what you know, and not a few words... That doesn't help me much guys.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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basically pulling out has a failure rate of around 15-28% depending on the study and does not protect against stds at all.

Just read this article from wikipedia.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Birth_control

Your best bet is condoms + some other method both in terms of std protection and an extremely low risk of failure resulting in pregnany. it may not feel as good but you won't be stuck with kids :)
 
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