"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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my girl is sick

bombtrack2007

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hey, whats up guys? my girl has mono and she feels like total poop. u should hear her on the phone, sounds like a bullfrog. anyways, i was looking to do something for her to make her feel better. would anyone like to share any ideas or experiences? thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aussiegoat55

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bombtrack2007 said:
hey, whats up guys? my girl has mono and she feels like total poop. u should hear her on the phone, sounds like a bullfrog. anyways, i was looking to do something for her to make her feel better. would anyone like to share any ideas or experiences? thanks.
If she matters enough to you put some more thought into it. It's not that hard to show acts of compassion. Don't rely on us first, rely on yourself first (aka self reliant) and then when all else fails, all options exhausted, ask for help from us.

So when you sit down and think hard about what she would like or what would be meaningful to her personally, because you will do this, you can later pat yourself on your back instead of coming back to this thread and giving "mad props" to one of us.

Don't give up. Good luck.
 

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You could lie down and watch a movie with her if she's not too devastatingly tired from it.

That or buy her something simple like a CD or a get well soon card with a little balloon lol.
 

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aussiegoat55 said:
Don't rely on us first, rely on yourself first (aka self reliant) and then when all else fails, all options exhausted, ask for help from us.

So when you sit down and think hard about what she would like or what would be meaningful to her personally, because you will do this, you can later pat yourself on your back instead of coming back to this thread and giving "mad props" to one of us.
Wow, an insightful post that makes sense. Good job :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NickBe

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Mono is almost always passed through kissing (exchange of saliva). Who has your girlfriend been kissing?
 

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Back when I got mono I certainly wasn't getting a bloody lot of kisses, let alone from anyone that had mono.

Ask her if she's getting any antibiotics. If so, make damn sure there's a real good reason (like a diagnosed bacterial infection), and she's eating yogurt and/or taking "probiotics" like they're going out of existence. Because, as I found out the hard way (fvcked me up for may years), getting antibiotics when one has mono can destroy the good bacteria in one's system (especially the gut), and leave a clear path for all kinds of undesirable fungi and bacteria to set up shop, and the effects could be devastating.
 

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Bonhomme said:
Back when I got mono I certainly wasn't getting a bloody lot of kisses, let alone from anyone that had mono.

Ask her if she's getting any antibiotics. If so, make damn sure there's a real good reason (like a diagnosed bacterial infection), and she's eating yogurt and/or taking "probiotics" like they're going out of existence. Because, as I found out the hard way (fvcked me up for may years), getting antibiotics when one has mono can destroy the good bacteria in one's system (especially the gut), and leave a clear path for all kinds of undesirable fungi and bacteria to set up shop, and the effects could be devastating.
thanks for the infos, good to know.
 

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Bonhomme said:
Back when I got mono I certainly wasn't getting a bloody lot of kisses, let alone from anyone that had mono.

Ask her if she's getting any antibiotics. If so, make damn sure there's a real good reason (like a diagnosed bacterial infection), and she's eating yogurt and/or taking "probiotics" like they're going out of existence. Because, as I found out the hard way (fvcked me up for may years), getting antibiotics when one has mono can destroy the good bacteria in one's system (especially the gut), and leave a clear path for all kinds of undesirable fungi and bacteria to set up shop, and the effects could be devastating.
As far as I remember you can have mono fir 4-6 weeks before the symptoms kick in and you can pass it on in those 406 weeks. So again who has your GF been kissing? Very rarely is it passed on in other ways.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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