"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bombtrack2007

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hey, whats up guys? my girl has mono and she feels like total poop. u should hear her on the phone, sounds like a bullfrog. anyways, i was looking to do something for her to make her feel better. would anyone like to share any ideas or experiences? thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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aussiegoat55

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bombtrack2007 said:
hey, whats up guys? my girl has mono and she feels like total poop. u should hear her on the phone, sounds like a bullfrog. anyways, i was looking to do something for her to make her feel better. would anyone like to share any ideas or experiences? thanks.
If she matters enough to you put some more thought into it. It's not that hard to show acts of compassion. Don't rely on us first, rely on yourself first (aka self reliant) and then when all else fails, all options exhausted, ask for help from us.

So when you sit down and think hard about what she would like or what would be meaningful to her personally, because you will do this, you can later pat yourself on your back instead of coming back to this thread and giving "mad props" to one of us.

Don't give up. Good luck.
 

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You could lie down and watch a movie with her if she's not too devastatingly tired from it.

That or buy her something simple like a CD or a get well soon card with a little balloon lol.
 

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aussiegoat55 said:
Don't rely on us first, rely on yourself first (aka self reliant) and then when all else fails, all options exhausted, ask for help from us.

So when you sit down and think hard about what she would like or what would be meaningful to her personally, because you will do this, you can later pat yourself on your back instead of coming back to this thread and giving "mad props" to one of us.
Wow, an insightful post that makes sense. Good job :up:
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mono is almost always passed through kissing (exchange of saliva). Who has your girlfriend been kissing?
 

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Back when I got mono I certainly wasn't getting a bloody lot of kisses, let alone from anyone that had mono.

Ask her if she's getting any antibiotics. If so, make damn sure there's a real good reason (like a diagnosed bacterial infection), and she's eating yogurt and/or taking "probiotics" like they're going out of existence. Because, as I found out the hard way (fvcked me up for may years), getting antibiotics when one has mono can destroy the good bacteria in one's system (especially the gut), and leave a clear path for all kinds of undesirable fungi and bacteria to set up shop, and the effects could be devastating.
 

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Bonhomme said:
Back when I got mono I certainly wasn't getting a bloody lot of kisses, let alone from anyone that had mono.

Ask her if she's getting any antibiotics. If so, make damn sure there's a real good reason (like a diagnosed bacterial infection), and she's eating yogurt and/or taking "probiotics" like they're going out of existence. Because, as I found out the hard way (fvcked me up for may years), getting antibiotics when one has mono can destroy the good bacteria in one's system (especially the gut), and leave a clear path for all kinds of undesirable fungi and bacteria to set up shop, and the effects could be devastating.
thanks for the infos, good to know.
 

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Bonhomme said:
Back when I got mono I certainly wasn't getting a bloody lot of kisses, let alone from anyone that had mono.

Ask her if she's getting any antibiotics. If so, make damn sure there's a real good reason (like a diagnosed bacterial infection), and she's eating yogurt and/or taking "probiotics" like they're going out of existence. Because, as I found out the hard way (fvcked me up for may years), getting antibiotics when one has mono can destroy the good bacteria in one's system (especially the gut), and leave a clear path for all kinds of undesirable fungi and bacteria to set up shop, and the effects could be devastating.
As far as I remember you can have mono fir 4-6 weeks before the symptoms kick in and you can pass it on in those 406 weeks. So again who has your GF been kissing? Very rarely is it passed on in other ways.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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