"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My girl has had sex before me
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
If so you are in a lucky situation although I hope you tread lightly...a girl that forward raises a few red flags.....if your looking for a quick sex encounter no big deal...but if you are looking for a quality girl I might suggest you do your homework on this chick....I pray for you she isn't a party favor.
If you want more I wouldn't highly recommend this girl (no offense) butif she is cool with admitting this so casually who knows what else she hass done. I come down to this...are you cool with being with her knowing about her past. If you think it is something that'll make you uncomfortable then say the hell with it....no girl is worth that in my opinion.
Don't know what advise i should offer a 16 year old, but here is my input.Sosa_80 said:
Sex is fun and for her to insist or mention it proves she enjoys it.
She shouldn't be able to put you under pressure to have sex and you should do it when you feel ready. If she values sex above you, then she needs to find some else who will supply her urges.
She is being honest with you. She may have thought that your under the assumption that she is a virgin and when the right time does come, she didn't want you to be shocked or surprised.
Either way, don't allow yourself to placed under pressure by her.
Have sex when you feel you are ready to do it!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It seems to me that shes the type of girl that had sex and now LOVES it. They exist I know quite a few of em.
You need to figure out how you feel about it and what you wanna do and where you want the relationship to go.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yes, that should always be the only type of girl in your life.
I agree with Zen. To the op, are you worried about doing it and then her liking the other guy better? Whatever your concerns about that other guy might be, you are the one she wants now. He's probably sitting at home crying over her because he turned into an afc and chased her away.
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