My girl a victim of rape, needs time?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

piri

Don Juan

Sep 23, 2006

That baseball bat thing was just an expression. Of course he would talk to him first.
But don't let anyone walk over you. Don't take **** from nobody. Only wusses do that. But don't ever be a mindless violent beast. That's even worse. That's my opinion.
I'm not telling him to stay with her. I'm telling him to LJBF her and find another girl. Or others...

Anyway, just DON'T keep trying to be her boyfriend. Dump her. Like DJDamage says, she will drag you down with her miserable condition.

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.