My girl a victim of rape, needs time?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

piri

Don Juan

Sep 23, 2006

That baseball bat thing was just an expression. Of course he would talk to him first.
But don't let anyone walk over you. Don't take **** from nobody. Only wusses do that. But don't ever be a mindless violent beast. That's even worse. That's my opinion.
I'm not telling him to stay with her. I'm telling him to LJBF her and find another girl. Or others...

Anyway, just DON'T keep trying to be her boyfriend. Dump her. Like DJDamage says, she will drag you down with her miserable condition.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.