JohnElDonJuan
Don Juan
Heres an old PM I got from a friend that I would like to share with everyone.
As posted by princelydeeds
As posted by princelydeeds
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My gift to this forum from princelydeeds
- Thread starter JohnElDonJuan
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Wow
Talk about bringing a 6'4" 280lb chump down to 2" tall.
Yes, everyone undoubtedly did realize who the real man was.
Talk about bringing a 6'4" 280lb chump down to 2" tall.
Yes, everyone undoubtedly did realize who the real man was.
How that story relates to women...
Let me try translate that story into how this kind of thing could help you out with a woman
Lets say you and your chick have a little arguement about something... what u need to do is keep calm and NOT say any hurtfull things, and not DO anything hurtfull towards either. Let her say all the hurtfull things and let HER throw glass objects at you After all this you just give her the space that she needs to calm down, and them later on come up to her with a bunch of roses and apologise to her, much like the small guy did in JohnElDonJuan's story. At this point she will feel so bad, that she will also apologise for acting the way she did, and she will also have a whole lot more respect for you (because of the way u handles the situation.)
P.S.: An apology from her will only be the START of the things she will give you
Laterz...
Let me try translate that story into how this kind of thing could help you out with a woman
Lets say you and your chick have a little arguement about something... what u need to do is keep calm and NOT say any hurtfull things, and not DO anything hurtfull towards either. Let her say all the hurtfull things and let HER throw glass objects at you
After all this you just give her the space that she needs to calm down, and them later on come up to her with a bunch of roses and apologise to her, much like the small guy did in JohnElDonJuan's story. At this point she will feel so bad, that she will also apologise for acting the way she did, and she will also have a whole lot more respect for you (because of the way u handles the situation.) P.S.: An apology from her will only be the START of the things she will give you
Laterz...
Re: Wow
Unfortuonatly, the truth is a bit sad. Everyone that has ever been in the short guy's boots knows what happens next -and it everything but like in the movies-
The little guy apologizes, the big guy feels sorry, yes, true. But does that change the behaviour of the big guy? Yes, for a short time. As long as the feeling of wrong-doing lasts. And after the feeling is gone... well, the bigboy is still bigger and stronger then the small guy, meaning, he is still overpowering him. Also meaning that the small guy is still in the mercy of bigboy. And he can bully him again IF he desires.
The sad truth?
What is the only way of making sure that the bigboy would never bully the small guy again?
He would have to prove it with strength. If a person is violent by nature, the only way of shielding yourself from his outbursts is showing to him that you are stronger the him in whichever way, thus overpowering him. Either in muscles, having 20 years of jui-jitsu behind you or by being a mafia ring leader. Or, but this way, he would have never spat in your face in the first place, by being stronger in aura.
Feelings of guilt come and go, but the feeling of being in power of someone else stays.
You think so? Aren't you the romantic type.
Unfortuonatly, the truth is a bit sad. Everyone that has ever been in the short guy's boots knows what happens next -and it everything but like in the movies-
The little guy apologizes, the big guy feels sorry, yes, true. But does that change the behaviour of the big guy? Yes, for a short time. As long as the feeling of wrong-doing lasts. And after the feeling is gone... well, the bigboy is still bigger and stronger then the small guy, meaning, he is still overpowering him. Also meaning that the small guy is still in the mercy of bigboy. And he can bully him again IF he desires.
The sad truth?
What is the only way of making sure that the bigboy would never bully the small guy again?
He would have to prove it with strength. If a person is violent by nature, the only way of shielding yourself from his outbursts is showing to him that you are stronger the him in whichever way, thus overpowering him. Either in muscles, having 20 years of jui-jitsu behind you or by being a mafia ring leader. Or, but this way, he would have never spat in your face in the first place, by being stronger in aura.
Feelings of guilt come and go, but the feeling of being in power of someone else stays.