"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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my gf's son

mongoose01

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My GF's son sent a pic of himself to some girl that goes to another school. A girl at his school was trying to set up a blind date.

She wrote back that he was ugly...that dude was devastated. So I helped him compose a letter back.

I explained to him young b!tches can be mean and downright fvkcing evil. Keep your guard up.

I just thought it was fvcked that she did that (whether if he was ugly or not).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DAAAAAAAMN! What a cold-hearted brat! What ever happened to "No thank you, I'm not interested." If she was MY daughter, and I found out she did that, I'd ground her for two months.

Why is it SO hard for people to just be polite to each other?
 

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Originally posted by mongoose01
My GF's son sent a pic of himself to some girl that goes to another school. A girl at his school was trying to set up a blind date.

She wrote back that he was ugly...that dude was devastated. So I helped him compose a letter back.

I explained to him young b!tches can be mean and downright fvkcing evil. Keep your guard up.

I just thought it was fvcked that she did that (whether if he was ugly or not).
Thank god he's got a DJ to help mentor him through.
 

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Looks like they start em attention wh*res young..

But, I think you should tell the lil guy that he shouldn't take much stock into it.

Dont you remember when you were a kid..when you teased, laughed at and poked fun of that girl back in elementary school...when all your lil buddies teased you that you liked her..and you swore up and down that she was an ugly girl with kooties..hahaha..in the end...you really did like her.

Sounds like thats what was happening here. Just let the lil guy know that there will be more like this..and she probably actually likes him.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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