"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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my gf's brother/problems....

illmatic1005

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ok..my gf was flirting with some drunk guy the other day..and i wasnt really mad because i trust her and whatever...but i just told her that it was kinda disrespectful but im not mad or anything because they were just having fun..and i want her to have some fun...


the only problem was that her brother found out and thought i was really jealous and upset(which i wasnt) ..and told her basically that im a piece of trahs jealous loser and i should grow up and not worry so much and stop trying to 'control' her life..(even tho i didnt really care)..

Then, my gf told him that i wasnt mad and that someone told me they made out, which was the only reason i was mad..and then she said that shes not 'tied down' bcuz shes not married..


now shes acting all differently like she never use to be4...i think she doesnt wanna feel 'tied down'..even tho i gave her all the freedom in the world to do whatever and trusted her that she didnt cheat on me..

any advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WHOA DUDE!!! she made out with another guy. and then she has the nerve to say that shes not tied down because she is not married. wow this b1tch is a trip. so much disrespect that i dont even noe u and im pissed. please get rid of this chick.. u can do so much better bro

good luck man
 

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Dump Her.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Tell her; "Sorry I havn't been giving you "freedom" but now, that i'm breaking up with you. You have all the freedom you want!!!" :crackup:

That will teach her. Plus, she made out with another guy? Not a huge deal but still... Get rid of her.
 

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When you say GF did you actually ask her to go steady?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, you posted about this party slvt before, she needs to be downgraded to a fvck buddy with no emotional attachment to her.

I would never ever have a GF who flirts with other guys when drunk.

NO EMOTION ATTACHMENT!

You don't even need to tell her, she already treated you like cr@p.
 

JDA70

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Well then it's time to cut her off
and find some other girls.
 

illmatic1005

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wolf116 said:
Dude, you posted about this party slvt before, she needs to be downgraded to a fvck buddy with no emotional attachment to her.

I would never ever have a GF who flirts with other guys when drunk.

NO EMOTION ATTACHMENT!

You don't even need to tell her, she already treated you like cr@p.

i would but she says shes a ''good girl'' now...yea what a bunch of cr@p...

i asked her when we gonna take it to the next level bcuz its been 2 months and shes like ..'im a good girl, maybe never"

so i said "im find holdin hands with u if thats all u want'..and she was happy.

BUT the only problem i have is that after i met her, i became GOOD friends with her brother who is my age...i chill with him all the time and when i see him, i'll see this girl and it willbe akward and she'll try to make me jealosu when other guys are around!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's only awkward if you care.
She will only try to make you jealous if you get jealous.

You sound really young(high school?), so I guess you are still learning.
Just make sure you do learn.

Hold up. This brother doesn't sound like much of a friend if he is speaking sh!t to her!

You don't need these people.
 

illmatic1005

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wolf116 said:
You don't need these people.
i think your are right when u say that...but its always fun hanging out with them..sometimes i wish she would dissapear from sight..then it would be easy cause ill find another chick easily...im reallllyy attached to this girl tho ughhhh
 

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Stop relying on other people to give you fun and make you happy.

You are only attached to this girl because she is you only supply of ass ATM.
 

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wolf116 said:
Dude, you posted about this party slvt before, she needs to be downgraded to a fvck buddy with no emotional attachment to her.

I would never ever have a GF who flirts with other guys when drunk.

NO EMOTION ATTACHMENT!

You don't even need to tell her, she already treated you like cr@p.
Yep.

Can't turn a ho into a housewife no way no how.

Making out with someother dude= immediate breakup with that chick.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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illmatic1005 said:
ok..my gf was flirting with some drunk guy the other day..and i wasnt really mad because i trust her and whatever...but i just told her that it was kinda disrespectful but im not mad or anything because they were just having fun..and i want her to have some fun...

Then, my gf told him that i wasnt mad and that someone told me they made out, which was the only reason i was mad..and then she said that shes not 'tied down' bcuz shes not married..
She must really love you to make out with another guy.
 

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Ah look its the old Captain-Save-a-ho' back with more issues from the same girl. You completely ignored what i posted last time (which was very useful information because i went out with the exact same type of girl back in highschool), thus i will not give you more advice except this...

When the "relation****" is over, bleed it out, get yourself together, then go find another girl/girls because you can definitly do better than this one.
 
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