"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My GF wants me to take her to the dance now!!!!

DasaniWater

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Only problem is I can't dance. she knows i cant dance. We've been to so many dances where i cant dance. My GF is a dancer. I want to suprise her and be like damn a good dancer but dunno how.

but my other question is... Say a guy, some prik, tries to ask my gf to dance WHEN HE CLEARLY KNOWS SHES WITH ME, what would be the right thing to say to him?? I cant think of anything.. weird.. Please let me know. I seriously been thinking for 2 days now...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DasaniWater

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WTF?!?! thats AFC. Shes MY GIRL! IF THAT HAPPENED I WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... AN EYE FOR AN EYE. THATS HOW IVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH HER. AND SHE KNOWS ID DO SOMETHING AND SHED REGRET IT.
 

tucking fypo

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dude dasani wtf is that how you treat your g/f? "I WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... AN EYE FOR AN EYE. THATS HOW IVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH HER. AND SHE KNOWS ID DO SOMETHING AND SHED REGRET IT. if u actaully do that to your girl than whats the point of being with her?

i agree with knyteguy a girlfriend is someone you love and you should start loving her and trustign her more. - rather then caps LOCKINg. also you have answered your own question

" WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... "
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DasaniWater

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but i mean it would make me feel bad that she didnt wanna dance with me if im her date / boy friend... but whatever. ill let her then.
 

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its one dance....their not leaving you for the rest of the night and then going home and ****ing....its ok at a dance to dance with other people....you can dance with other girls too...a dance is about having a good time....i cant dance for **** so i play it off and just act funny "trying" to dance....its a lot of fun...but definately dont start some **** over some guy asking her to dance...
 
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