"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My GF wants me to take her to the dance now!!!!

DasaniWater

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Only problem is I can't dance. she knows i cant dance. We've been to so many dances where i cant dance. My GF is a dancer. I want to suprise her and be like damn a good dancer but dunno how.

but my other question is... Say a guy, some prik, tries to ask my gf to dance WHEN HE CLEARLY KNOWS SHES WITH ME, what would be the right thing to say to him?? I cant think of anything.. weird.. Please let me know. I seriously been thinking for 2 days now...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DasaniWater

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WTF?!?! thats AFC. Shes MY GIRL! IF THAT HAPPENED I WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... AN EYE FOR AN EYE. THATS HOW IVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH HER. AND SHE KNOWS ID DO SOMETHING AND SHED REGRET IT.
 

tucking fypo

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dude dasani wtf is that how you treat your g/f? "I WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... AN EYE FOR AN EYE. THATS HOW IVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH HER. AND SHE KNOWS ID DO SOMETHING AND SHED REGRET IT. if u actaully do that to your girl than whats the point of being with her?

i agree with knyteguy a girlfriend is someone you love and you should start loving her and trustign her more. - rather then caps LOCKINg. also you have answered your own question

" WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... "
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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but i mean it would make me feel bad that she didnt wanna dance with me if im her date / boy friend... but whatever. ill let her then.
 

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its one dance....their not leaving you for the rest of the night and then going home and ****ing....its ok at a dance to dance with other people....you can dance with other girls too...a dance is about having a good time....i cant dance for **** so i play it off and just act funny "trying" to dance....its a lot of fun...but definately dont start some **** over some guy asking her to dance...
 
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