"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My GF wants me to take her to the dance now!!!!

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DasaniWater

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Only problem is I can't dance. she knows i cant dance. We've been to so many dances where i cant dance. My GF is a dancer. I want to suprise her and be like damn a good dancer but dunno how.

but my other question is... Say a guy, some prik, tries to ask my gf to dance WHEN HE CLEARLY KNOWS SHES WITH ME, what would be the right thing to say to him?? I cant think of anything.. weird.. Please let me know. I seriously been thinking for 2 days now...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DasaniWater

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WTF?!?! thats AFC. Shes MY GIRL! IF THAT HAPPENED I WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... AN EYE FOR AN EYE. THATS HOW IVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH HER. AND SHE KNOWS ID DO SOMETHING AND SHED REGRET IT.
 
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dude dasani wtf is that how you treat your g/f? "I WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... AN EYE FOR AN EYE. THATS HOW IVE ALWAYS BEEN WITH HER. AND SHE KNOWS ID DO SOMETHING AND SHED REGRET IT. if u actaully do that to your girl than whats the point of being with her?

i agree with knyteguy a girlfriend is someone you love and you should start loving her and trustign her more. - rather then caps LOCKINg. also you have answered your own question

" WOULD FCKING HIT ON EVERY SINGLE GIRL AT THE DANCE AND MAKE HER SOOOO JELOUS... "
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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but i mean it would make me feel bad that she didnt wanna dance with me if im her date / boy friend... but whatever. ill let her then.
 
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its one dance....their not leaving you for the rest of the night and then going home and ****ing....its ok at a dance to dance with other people....you can dance with other girls too...a dance is about having a good time....i cant dance for **** so i play it off and just act funny "trying" to dance....its a lot of fun...but definately dont start some **** over some guy asking her to dance...
 
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