Dublinsfinest
Don Juan
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Is this guy pugsley in disguise???
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
my gf kissed another guy - update
- Thread starter flyinshark
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
Me? Obviously not. I can assume that this is an older member of these boards. If so, then was he at least a cool guy ? I wouldn't wanna be compared to someone everyone hated or something.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
True Alpha Males let go when things get bad. An Alpha Male doesn't hold on to his girl even though she's a cheater because he "will miss her" or "feel lonely" he doesn't even think about that. He breaks it off when there is blatant disrespect (your girl) and goes back in the field to meet more worthy candidates because he knows he gets a lot of attention and he can have any girl he wants!
Your girl completely had you by the ballz, your emotions were/are fukin' with your logical judgement. Your girl probably cheated because of the distance between you and her guilty mind couldn't take it anymore. I already told you this once, but I'll tell you again. She didn't confess because she cares about your feelings, she confessed because she couldn't stand feeling GUILTY about her OWN FEELINGS!! (SELFISH) She completely lied to you about how the kiss went down and you should cut her outta of your life. Make sure the next girl you meet, you don't let her walk all over you.
PIMP
Your girl completely had you by the ballz, your emotions were/are fukin' with your logical judgement. Your girl probably cheated because of the distance between you and her guilty mind couldn't take it anymore. I already told you this once, but I'll tell you again. She didn't confess because she cares about your feelings, she confessed because she couldn't stand feeling GUILTY about her OWN FEELINGS!! (SELFISH) She completely lied to you about how the kiss went down and you should cut her outta of your life. Make sure the next girl you meet, you don't let her walk all over you.
PIMP
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
You're right Pimp-sicle. I am moving on and i am already looking for another girl!
I will try to apply with that new girl what i've learned here and this should keep her IL high for a longer time. She also won't walk all over me like this girl has. I've learned quite some things thanks to this situation.
I will try to apply with that new girl what i've learned here and this should keep her IL high for a longer time. She also won't walk all over me like this girl has. I've learned quite some things thanks to this situation.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeah I do have some thoughts on this version of the story and your buying it.
Can you say :
SUKA!!!!
But it's cool. When I tell stories like that to women, they want to believe in me so bad that they actually believe my bull**** stories.
So I know where your coming from. You definately don't want to have to go to the trouble of replacing her now do you. It would be better to buy into the story than to have to be alone and single now wouldn't it.
Now stop and ask yourself:
Why would your WOMAN, the girl that you *** inside of, the girl whom you have given a piece of yourself to, the girl whom you have such fond and deep feeling for...why would she go to another mans home to begin with?
I guess you would know the answer to that, since your her f*ckin man and she is your f*ckin woman, right?
I'm sure you don't care that she went into another mans personal abode and was kissed by him. Taken under his spell to follow him up there and....
Can you say :
SUKA!!!!
But it's cool. When I tell stories like that to women, they want to believe in me so bad that they actually believe my bull**** stories.
So I know where your coming from. You definately don't want to have to go to the trouble of replacing her now do you. It would be better to buy into the story than to have to be alone and single now wouldn't it.
Now stop and ask yourself:
Why would your WOMAN, the girl that you *** inside of, the girl whom you have given a piece of yourself to, the girl whom you have such fond and deep feeling for...why would she go to another mans home to begin with?
I guess you would know the answer to that, since your her f*ckin man and she is your f*ckin woman, right?
I'm sure you don't care that she went into another mans personal abode and was kissed by him. Taken under his spell to follow him up there and....
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
A woman doesn't go into a man's apartment alone - only hors do this!!!
Once again showing the stupidity of women who really, really think that men want to be their "friends" when in truth they just want to bone them...
Dumbasses who think men and women are "friends" take note.
Dietzcoi
Dumbasses who think men and women are "friends" take note.
Dietzcoi
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
it's over
Guys, it's over between me and that girl! I dont see why people keep replying, as i already said that she's gone from my life.
Thanks to all for enlightening me and allowing me to use my brain instead of my d!ck. Without so many of you telling me to open my eyes, i am not sure i would have dumped her. No, i would for sure NOT dumped her.
Thanks again and have a great day y'all!
Guys, it's over between me and that girl! I dont see why people keep replying, as i already said that she's gone from my life.
Thanks to all for enlightening me and allowing me to use my brain instead of my d!ck. Without so many of you telling me to open my eyes, i am not sure i would have dumped her. No, i would for sure NOT dumped her.
Thanks again and have a great day y'all!
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
That's right. Especially if she's in a relationship, unless, of course, she had other things on her mind......