Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
We have been going out for about 10 months. Before we were together she was going out with this guy but broke up cos I start to come on to the scene.
Sometimes I see pics of him on her desk or computer and I said "Look there is only one room for one guy either me or him" and she said sorry I will get rid of them.
But then I find a few and there's more and more appearing. Whenever I say "Hey, where are those pics we took the other day...." and then BANG I come across some of her ex on her laptop. So I get a little mad about them even though she never spoke of him etc. I got a rid of my ex's pics why can't she.
I am annoyed when people say it is perfectly fine that people keep pics of their ex even though in a relationship. And that you are bein insecure or immature if you get mad at it. And they say that you are being stupid because she is with you and not her ex etc.
Now we have had fights over it a few times. But she says I wont find any....but one day she told me she gathered them all up and took it with when she went back overseas to see her family just to throw them out? WTF! She said she did it to make sure that she had gotten rid of them once and for all. That is bullsh*t to expect me to belive that! She shouldve have gotten rid of them immediately.
Now I find it hard to trust and believe her when she says things. I feel resentment because even if it is just little material things... I can't stop to think that she still has feelings for him even though she denies it. Why did she have to carry them halfway around? There must be a reason for it!
Sometimes I see pics of him on her desk or computer and I said "Look there is only one room for one guy either me or him" and she said sorry I will get rid of them.
But then I find a few and there's more and more appearing. Whenever I say "Hey, where are those pics we took the other day...." and then BANG I come across some of her ex on her laptop. So I get a little mad about them even though she never spoke of him etc. I got a rid of my ex's pics why can't she.
I am annoyed when people say it is perfectly fine that people keep pics of their ex even though in a relationship. And that you are bein insecure or immature if you get mad at it. And they say that you are being stupid because she is with you and not her ex etc.
Now we have had fights over it a few times. But she says I wont find any....but one day she told me she gathered them all up and took it with when she went back overseas to see her family just to throw them out? WTF! She said she did it to make sure that she had gotten rid of them once and for all. That is bullsh*t to expect me to belive that! She shouldve have gotten rid of them immediately.
Now I find it hard to trust and believe her when she says things. I feel resentment because even if it is just little material things... I can't stop to think that she still has feelings for him even though she denies it. Why did she have to carry them halfway around? There must be a reason for it!