You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
stoner1129 said:so yeah my gf is starting to talk to my friends and a lot. she talks to one of them like a SH!T LOAD more than me, sometimes he'll call her and sometimes she'll call him but the problem is that she like never calls me. so what should i do about that? is it a problem? and what could i do to change it?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
kudos fort this postzinc64 said:This is a very easy question. Start talking to another girl on the side for backup. If your girl comes around then great...if not then also great because you can start seriously seeing the new girl who was on the side. Don't put up with any second rate treatment from ANY girl. Trust me. If you do...you are in for a load of heartache. I'd be going out and meeting new girls ASAP if I were you while still keeping this relationship going as well. Once your GF comes around then you can focus on her only...but for now....spin some plates and don't put up with BS...do your own thing a little while acting non chalant about it.