Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
stoner1129 said:so yeah my gf is starting to talk to my friends and a lot. she talks to one of them like a SH!T LOAD more than me, sometimes he'll call her and sometimes she'll call him but the problem is that she like never calls me. so what should i do about that? is it a problem? and what could i do to change it?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
kudos fort this postzinc64 said:This is a very easy question. Start talking to another girl on the side for backup. If your girl comes around then great...if not then also great because you can start seriously seeing the new girl who was on the side. Don't put up with any second rate treatment from ANY girl. Trust me. If you do...you are in for a load of heartache. I'd be going out and meeting new girls ASAP if I were you while still keeping this relationship going as well. Once your GF comes around then you can focus on her only...but for now....spin some plates and don't put up with BS...do your own thing a little while acting non chalant about it.