Pardon my typing but its late right now and Im tired. Ive been with my GF for 3 years total. We live together. Weve lived together for almost 2 years total. In general shes always p1ssed off or depressed during the work week espically. Then the weekened comes shes fine and ready to party. Shes depressed cause shes been on meds, highly irritable, anxiety, etc. No sex drive. We fvck once a week on the weekened. We havent fvcked in like 2-3 weeks.
Recently she went home to hawaii for 10 days. We talked maybe like 4-5 times. Then since she has been home I feel some tension or shes just p1ssed about work. I cant really read it that well. But everytime she goes home or on vacay without me she comes back being weird. One time she went home and came back and she was like we gotta end it. Like out of the blue. Then she came back from vacay with her parents and we didnt talk for 3 days cause she turned her phone off. Now shes just weird I sense shes unsure about things with us for some reason. Her paretns just influence her. Theyve never met me. They dont know my upbringing etc. Girls like my gf are always the victim regardless and i think she paints that to them by saying shes not happy because of me and not working and needs this and that.
Her parents are very controlling of her and she always wants to give them the affect that shes perfect. Just like every ch1ck soemtimes she doesnt seem satisfied with me and my life. Well I got a lot going for me right now. Im only 26 get a bachelors in business marketing and finishing up a masters (dam thesis is taking forever) now. . In about 3 weeks I think im going back to get my MBA cause the job market sucks (I had a good job but couldn't take the situation overall so I left) I will start as a NON Degree seeking student because I have to wait for my other masters to get done.. I havent worked for 7 months but Im pretty much self sufficient as I have more money coming in than she does at her full time job by helping my mom out with her business. I could basically never work at a real job again if I wanted to. She always makes little comments..."did you get a job? blah balh. Why the fvck would I get a job espically a bs job because of the job market and make the same if im lucky if not less working part time?? Literally with everything coming in i have about 3500-4000 a month coming through my bank account not working everyday and not answering to noone except my mom. Thats more than a lot of people.
You know I am spoiled ive been spoiled my whole life and my parents have helped me out and her friends are always like yea hes a trust fund baby (which Im not) my parents just make a decent chunk of change. But she cant say sh1t cause she still hits up her paretns for money. But with what im doing now for my mom thats basically all me.
With what Im doing right now for my mom its pretty steady and I will be able to put myself through school with minumum student loans and have the flexibility I need because I hear MBA school is no cake walk. I know shes like oh this guy has no job yadda yadda he sits at home all day working for mommy and makes super easy money (some of that sh1t goes to her like just dropping 400 for her plane ticket to see her parents for some wedding in a couple of weeks.
Seems like she is never pleased. She would tell me how her exs were losers (i know for a fact some dude just had some bs degree and became a rafting instructor and some other dude cheated to just get his GED and never went to college and some other dude who didnt go to college.) I think shes throwing me in their category and her parents are probalby like yea leave that loser. Im well educated, great family background, very healty and in shape, have nice things, and a lot of friends and have opportunities. Guess if she cant handle it gtfo.
Seriously Im only 26 shes 28 at all my jobs Ive had ive made more than she has ever before. Plus now. I guess I can see her hating on me cause shes working long hours and feels like shes going nowhere making no money right now while Im sitting at home and making more money than her. But you know what pretty soon I will 2 masters and will have big opportunities. I support sometimes cause she literally has no money to buy grocerys cause she has a lot of bills.
Honestly if she doesnt change her attitude by this weekened im going to say something cause I havent yet I just let her be. I think she feels entitled or wants some dude whose sitting at a desk all day pulling up 35-40k guranteed and shell feel safe and secure and that guy will be a winner and a keeper. Come on now.
Recently she went home to hawaii for 10 days. We talked maybe like 4-5 times. Then since she has been home I feel some tension or shes just p1ssed about work. I cant really read it that well. But everytime she goes home or on vacay without me she comes back being weird. One time she went home and came back and she was like we gotta end it. Like out of the blue. Then she came back from vacay with her parents and we didnt talk for 3 days cause she turned her phone off. Now shes just weird I sense shes unsure about things with us for some reason. Her paretns just influence her. Theyve never met me. They dont know my upbringing etc. Girls like my gf are always the victim regardless and i think she paints that to them by saying shes not happy because of me and not working and needs this and that.
Her parents are very controlling of her and she always wants to give them the affect that shes perfect. Just like every ch1ck soemtimes she doesnt seem satisfied with me and my life. Well I got a lot going for me right now. Im only 26 get a bachelors in business marketing and finishing up a masters (dam thesis is taking forever) now. . In about 3 weeks I think im going back to get my MBA cause the job market sucks (I had a good job but couldn't take the situation overall so I left) I will start as a NON Degree seeking student because I have to wait for my other masters to get done.. I havent worked for 7 months but Im pretty much self sufficient as I have more money coming in than she does at her full time job by helping my mom out with her business. I could basically never work at a real job again if I wanted to. She always makes little comments..."did you get a job? blah balh. Why the fvck would I get a job espically a bs job because of the job market and make the same if im lucky if not less working part time?? Literally with everything coming in i have about 3500-4000 a month coming through my bank account not working everyday and not answering to noone except my mom. Thats more than a lot of people.
You know I am spoiled ive been spoiled my whole life and my parents have helped me out and her friends are always like yea hes a trust fund baby (which Im not) my parents just make a decent chunk of change. But she cant say sh1t cause she still hits up her paretns for money. But with what im doing now for my mom thats basically all me.
With what Im doing right now for my mom its pretty steady and I will be able to put myself through school with minumum student loans and have the flexibility I need because I hear MBA school is no cake walk. I know shes like oh this guy has no job yadda yadda he sits at home all day working for mommy and makes super easy money (some of that sh1t goes to her like just dropping 400 for her plane ticket to see her parents for some wedding in a couple of weeks.
Seems like she is never pleased. She would tell me how her exs were losers (i know for a fact some dude just had some bs degree and became a rafting instructor and some other dude cheated to just get his GED and never went to college and some other dude who didnt go to college.) I think shes throwing me in their category and her parents are probalby like yea leave that loser. Im well educated, great family background, very healty and in shape, have nice things, and a lot of friends and have opportunities. Guess if she cant handle it gtfo.
Seriously Im only 26 shes 28 at all my jobs Ive had ive made more than she has ever before. Plus now. I guess I can see her hating on me cause shes working long hours and feels like shes going nowhere making no money right now while Im sitting at home and making more money than her. But you know what pretty soon I will 2 masters and will have big opportunities. I support sometimes cause she literally has no money to buy grocerys cause she has a lot of bills.
Honestly if she doesnt change her attitude by this weekened im going to say something cause I havent yet I just let her be. I think she feels entitled or wants some dude whose sitting at a desk all day pulling up 35-40k guranteed and shell feel safe and secure and that guy will be a winner and a keeper. Come on now.
