Stanley
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Nov 6, 2022
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I'm the guy with massive wanderlust who's probably going to go on a spree abroad soon, but if you can't afford it you can't afford it. In my case i'm transient as possible and have aspired to bounce around for a very long time, I don't make much, but i'm smart with it and have made connections to lighten the load.
If she is really into travelling and you cannot then you should have an open conversation about it.
If this is an LTR there is nothing wrong with saying it isn't a priority to you and you have other financial goals and aspirations which take precedence. I don't like your mention of 'inferiority'. Your worth is not based upon your income, but many men nowadays place their entire self worth on this one facet of life. It isn't wrong to tell the girl you assumedly love that you would struggle to remain afloat if you travelled to the extent that she wants to, it would be the truth.
Chat with her candidly about it, express your concerns, try to come to a compromise, better understand one another and continually assess your compatibility.
If she is really into travelling and you cannot then you should have an open conversation about it.
If this is an LTR there is nothing wrong with saying it isn't a priority to you and you have other financial goals and aspirations which take precedence. I don't like your mention of 'inferiority'. Your worth is not based upon your income, but many men nowadays place their entire self worth on this one facet of life. It isn't wrong to tell the girl you assumedly love that you would struggle to remain afloat if you travelled to the extent that she wants to, it would be the truth.
Chat with her candidly about it, express your concerns, try to come to a compromise, better understand one another and continually assess your compatibility.