"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My "gf" is not my gf anymore

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No not a rant thread. Hmmm so this girl earlier i was friends with. i told her a crush on her she said no. i said fine and started dating other gals. but then she goes around telling everybody that she is my gf. i actually did like her but i was dating others anyway. even her friends assumed we were going out. they used to msg me saying she likes me and stuff. so i was happy.

today she tells me all this is a big "joke" and her friends were fooling around. her friends sent me so many msges saying she liked me and stuff. i was so happy and even stoped playing the game. i noticed she has been kinda distant and stuff for the last few days. so today she tells me she and her friends were just "joking". oh well not too devasted. oh well gotta get my game up and running again

i guess that's the last she will be seeing of me.

lessons learnt :-

1) don't become "more than friends" with chicks.

2) ummm can't think abt other lessons.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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damn dude, you got teased bad...
 
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oh wait ya some more lessons:-

1) she said ppl shd be friends b4 hooking up. so i thought when she was sending all those msgs she was acting on it. well BELEIVE IN ACTIONS NOT WORDS. AND CHICKS SAY DO ACT DIFFERENT THINGS(lifted from earlier threads, but i guess those lessons r more engrained into my head.
 
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i remember when i was back in grade 7 i was always the one without a girlfriend. puberty was not kind to me and i was homely as hell. then one day a girl came up to me and said sara has a crush on you. my heart nearly hit the floor. i was excited because she was really pretty. then a bunch of her friends said that if i asked her out she would say yes. so being naive and dumb i phoned her up and said do you want to go out sometime and all of a sudden i heard a big laugh come from a crowd of girls and she said ummm i don't think so loser. it sucked.

fast foward to grade 9. over the summer i went from a caterpiller to a butterfly because in grade 9 i had girls calling me up and asking me out and when i walked down the halls in school i always got the flirty hello's to. it was awesome. then then i heard that sara had a huge crush on me and wanted to go to the christmas formal with me. i sent my friends over and told them to tell her that if she called me up i would definetly go with her. she called me uop and asked me and i let out a big laugh and said i don't think so loser, i'm going with someone else. karma is real.
 
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i give props to u insanity, dont ever give up ur dignity for a girl.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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f'uck, those girls are b1tches. get your game going and forget about all that sh1t.
 
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Hold the phone

While agree with the other guys comments that you are better off with this chick I would suggest that maybe this girl is telling lies.

From what I read, I would say she does like you. She probably didn't know her friends were sending you messages about it and when she found out she was mortified.

She probably just said that **** to save face. You are dating other girls after all...

All I'm saying is just coz a chick says something doesn't mean its true.

I think a lot of expereinced guys would back me up when I say that one of the secrets to getting girls it to just ignore em when they try to put you off.

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i agree,if a girl likes someone they seem to most of the time say "no i dont!" then when you say you like so and so.. they are like "i dont" next day you find out they do,i know what you mean
 
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lol young AFC, here is the lesson to you.
IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN A GIRL, LET HER KNOW BY DJING HER, FLRTING WIT HER, DONT BECOME HER FRIEND FIRST.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Umm I am nowhere close to afc. I have worked hard to be what I am today. I work out, have decent grades in university and have a life in general. The thing is she was a good friend before I liked her. We used to talk abt all the sh!t in the world. I sure had a crush on her but after she said no I decided to keep her as my social proof as she is good looking. Sometimes I used to practise my DJ skills on her. An afc would have devoted all his time to her. Me otoh was spinning other plates and was actually living my life. The only stupid thing I did was to stop spinning them when I "thought" she was my "gf".

So yes that is a lesson. Never stop spinning.
 
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