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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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My gf is going to a party what should i do?

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marmel75 said:
Stop acting like a b!tch. That's what you should do. My wife goes out with her girlfriends once a month, I could care less.
marmel, you are still married??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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foreverAFC said:
marmel, you are still married??
Yes, and I've been behaving although last night really almost got me in trouble...my cousin had a big moving party at his old house, and I don't know if he talks me up to the people there, or what, but he has a lot of women friends and they always are hitting on me. I posted onFB that I was coming and a couple of them were like "Yeah I saw on FB you said you were coming and I was excited to see you again" or "You should come hang out with us more often!", etc...

Then I was standing there talking with a couple people and noticed a group of 3 women were laughing and giggling while talking to each other and kept turning their heads to look at me. So eventually they come over and join the conversation and all three of them pressed up close to me...one on my right, one across from me and the other to my left. Then they ask me if one of the guys there "raped me", as a joke. And I was like "I will neither confirm nor deny that rumor...what makes you think that would have happened." And my cousin chimes in "They are both straight what are you talking about!" So the drunkest of the 3 blurts out "Well,(other dude name) has been with everyone else and if anyone could turn him gay, you could!" And I was like Whoa....I got 3 of them here trying to see which one can get at me, lmao...

So I'm like "No, if I was going to get raped it would have to be by a women...but it might take 2 or 3 to subdue me...You three think you are up for the challenge??" And all the started laughing hysterically...Then the convo turns more sexual and somehow we get on the topic of hair pulling and the hottest of the 3 says "Women don't like getting their hair pulled" and I'm like "What??? You are a mvthafvcking liar!!!" And she is like "It never did anything for me" so I'm like "Oh what's next, you are going to tell me you don't like getting your ass spanked either" and she was like "nah...not really im kind of boring"...so after a few minutes she turns and starts talking to my cousin and her friend, and I silently go stand behind her and starts stroking her long hair, and then grab it all in a bunch and give it a little pull...no reaction so I do it again, she steps back into me and forcefully presses her ass onto my d!ck...so I wrap her hair around my wrist a few time and then give her a good tug that pulls her head back and smack her ass pretty hard...and I whisper in her ear "don't tell me you didn't fvcking love that" and I slowly walk away...I glance back and see her looking at me with a smile on her face...about 10 minutes later I go into the house to piss and I as I'm pissing I hear the door open behind me and she walks in, pretending she didn't know I was in there. I finish up, put it in and turn around and I immediately know by the look on her face if I made a move I would have been bending her over the sink within 5 minutes...she was standing in front of the door almost blocking my path out...so I ask "Do you always walk in on random guys taking a piss or am I just special" and she was like "your just special" and gives me a devilish smile..I wanted
to lay her out so bad but I walked out...later on after they left I was talking to my cousin and he tells me "Man I don't know what you did to (her name), but she wanted to fvck you bad...she told (her two other friends) she was going to fvck you tonight...did you end up fvcking her?? Dude I won't say anything if you did, I don't care"...so I tell him about the whole bathroom thing and he was like "Yeah. That wasn't an accident, she wanted you to fvck her." And I told him I kinda figured that out...

So I went home without doing anything...still got my lengthy streak intact...in fact the last time I did anything was at a party he threw several years ago...same type of situation...one of his hot chick friends kept coming at me, but started grabbing my ass repeatedly outside the bathroom, so I told her "Come here I need to talk to you about that" and pushed her into a side bedroom, locked the door and that was that...

I need to stop going to his parties...haha
 
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marmel75 said:
Yes, and I've been behaving although last night really almost got me in trouble...my cousin had a big moving party at his old house, and I don't know if he talks me up to the people there, or what, but he has a lot of women friends and they always are hitting on me. I posted onFB that I was coming and a couple of them were like "Yeah I saw on FB you said you were coming and I was excited to see you again" or "You should come hang out with us more often!", etc...

Then I was standing there talking with a couple people and noticed a group of 3 women were laughing and giggling while talking to each other and kept turning their heads to look at me. So eventually they come over and join the conversation and all three of them pressed up close to me...one on my right, one across from me and the other to my left. Then they ask me if one of the guys there "raped me", as a joke. And I was like "I will neither confirm nor deny that rumor...what makes you think that would have happened." And my cousin chimes in "They are both straight what are you talking about!" So the drunkest of the 3 blurts out "Well,(other dude name) has been with everyone else and if anyone could turn him gay, you could!" And I was like Whoa....I got 3 of them here trying to see which one can get at me, lmao...

So I'm like "No, if I was going to get raped it would have to be by a women...but it might take 2 or 3 to subdue me...You three think you are up for the challenge??" And all the started laughing hysterically...Then the convo turns more sexual and somehow we get on the topic of hair pulling and the hottest of the 3 says "Women don't like getting their hair pulled" and I'm like "What??? You are a mvthafvcking liar!!!" And she is like "It never did anything for me" so I'm like "Oh what's next, you are going to tell me you don't like getting your ass spanked either" and she was like "nah...not really im kind of boring"...so after a few minutes she turns and starts talking to my cousin and her friend, and I silently go stand behind her and starts stroking her long hair, and then grab it all in a bunch and give it a little pull...no reaction so I do it again, she steps back into me and forcefully presses her ass onto my d!ck...so I wrap her hair around my wrist a few time and then give her a good tug that pulls her head back and smack her ass pretty hard...and I whisper in her ear "don't tell me you didn't fvcking love that" and I slowly walk away...I glance back and see her looking at me with a smile on her face...about 10 minutes later I go into the house to piss and I as I'm pissing I hear the door open behind me and she walks in, pretending she didn't know I was in there. I finish up, put it in and turn around and I immediately know by the look on her face if I made a move I would have been bending her over the sink within 5 minutes...she was standing in front of the door almost blocking my path out...so I ask "Do you always walk in on random guys taking a piss or am I just special" and she was like "your just special" and gives me a devilish smile..I wanted
to lay her out so bad but I walked out...later on after they left I was talking to my cousin and he tells me "Man I don't know what you did to (her name), but she wanted to fvck you bad...she told (her two other friends) she was going to fvck you tonight...did you end up fvcking her?? Dude I won't say anything if you did, I don't care"...so I tell him about the whole bathroom thing and he was like "Yeah. That wasn't an accident, she wanted you to fvck her." And I told him I kinda figured that out...

So I went home without doing anything...still got my lengthy streak intact...in fact the last time I did anything was at a party he threw several years ago...same type of situation...one of his hot chick friends kept coming at me, but started grabbing my ass repeatedly outside the bathroom, so I told her "Come here I need to talk to you about that" and pushed her into a side bedroom, locked the door and that was that...

I need to stop going to his parties...haha
its a waste for guys like you to be married bro, thats where you messed up, you should have gotten that divorce
 

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foreverAFC said:
its a waste for guys like you to be married bro, thats where you messed up, you should have gotten that divorce
I agree it's a waste of Ability, but don't get it twisted, I do love my wife. She is a high quality person and most guys would die to have a woman like this. Cooks, cleans, does laundry, great mother, loves me almost blindly, just a really good person.

In some ways, she deserves someone better than me. My problem is I just like fvcking, have an extremely high sex drive, and the excitement of the first time you rail a chick and all that stuff. Also my wife can't really handle me...I wear her out after about 30 minutes whereas I want to fvck for hours.

So it's not that I don't love her, more so that I love punishing new women by trying to fvck them through the bed and seeing if they can take it.
 
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Dhoulmagus said:
Did you even ask if you could go or are you assuming you aren't invited from the get go? I've been to plenty of parties with my gf where I didn't know a soul, but she introduced me to people.
Im actually assuming that I'm not invited, but again why would I go to a party that I'm not interested unless I'm checking up on her, and I don't want to do that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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skinnyguy said:
She probably gets hit on at the grocery store...you gonna ban her from going there too?
Grocery store is different from a party with people getting drunk. venue are different
 
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