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My gf has an "internet boyfriend"

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Hahaha not me! It gets to the point where it reminds me of a male track runner. Totally turns me off.

I want a woman to have a smooth flat stomach. I want to kiss it. I don't want to chop f**cking lettuce on it.
Sinewy muscle and tendons sticking out everywhere....makes me wanna YACK.

But back to the topic....

She's a baby. What do you expect? Like Joe said, women that age are good for sex only.

I learned my lesson with my last g/f who was 21. Had a great 2 year run, but I knew it was bound to end. I let myself get wrapped up in it and it didn't end well.
 

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm right with 'ya on those yoga chicks. I'm not a huge guy but I have picked a couple up over my shoulder and carried them up a flight of stairs like a couple of bags of groceries. And then like you said, the flexibility (not to mention their tightness), OMG... They just beg to have a copy of the Kama Sutra next to the bed and go through it page by page recreating the positions. :rockon:
 

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I think there's NOTHING wrong with the OP being involved with a 21yo chick.


But the computer snooping was STUPID. Let that sh*t GO. Don't do that.


I agree with those above who point out the folly of trying to be in a committed relationship with one so young. It won't work.

I think it's likely impossible for me to ever be in a committed relationship (let alone a MARRIAGE) ever again. I've just accepted that I must enjoy women for who/what they are. And I don't think very many of them can be faithful. So, I don't ever ASK them to be. I really don't care what they do when not around me.

So, the whole issue is moot. She can't "cheat," we can't "break up," nobody expects more than WHAT IT IS: two people getting together to do whatever. For as long as they'd mutually care to do so.


To the OP: Let it go, let her do what she wants, enjoy her while she's around. And get yourself a couple more chicks.



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How are you going to put her in her place? You've already proven through your present actions that 1) you need her and 2) she doesn't need you.

F*ck "her place". You're 40 years old and yet you sound like a little kid trying to figure out how to get "even" with his mom for making him do chores. Leave her be and find a real woman.
 

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STR8UP said:
You guys are joking, right?

That borders on NASTY.

A woman's body is supposed to be soft. They aren't supposed to have 8% body fat.

Washboard abs on a CHICK???? That sh!t REALLY turns you on?
I'm with Str8up on this one. I might swing my sword in the same room as another guy, but I think banging a chick with a bod like that is borderline gay.

I puttin Joker in the grey area that he talked about the other day.

Only the last chick had a little bit of sex appeal and even at that was minimal, I don't want to fvck a women in a mans body, thats just nasty.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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STR8UP said:
You guys are joking, right?

That borders on NASTY.

A woman's body is supposed to be soft. They aren't supposed to have 8% body fat.

Washboard abs on a CHICK???? That sh!t REALLY turns you on?

Str8up doesnt dig women who could bang HIM if they wanted too...:whistle:

Those women were bangin' but a bit muscled for me.

But hey, variety is the spice of life...
 
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How should I put this immature little ho in her place?
Haha, hors are for everybody!! No such thing as a loyal hor! Hors love everyone and no one, at the same time!! You are just the next pimp in line - know this!!!

There is no such thing as "girlfriend"!
 

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19 year age difference. You gotta play the sugar daddy role better, you know...actually have some cash to dispense to your sugar babby.
 
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19 year age difference. You gotta play the sugar daddy role better, you know...actually have some cash to dispense to your sugar babby.
Very bad idea and a good way to go broke! If you live by money, you will die by money!
 

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I'm really starting to wonder if anyone on here knows what their talking about.

HES 40 WITH A YOUNGER CHICK... and you are telling him to date some older trash.... I think most of the posters here are just jealous, or in serious need of getting their heads examined.
Anyone who knows me can tell you that I won't ever tell anyone to stay away from younger women. They are a gift to older men from the heavens :)

However.....you're playing with fire if you expect a "real" relationship from them. Enjoy the different perspective they bring and the sex, just be prepared that it will end and if you have yourself invested it might not be pretty.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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STR8UP said:
You guys are joking, right?

That borders on NASTY.

A woman's body is supposed to be soft. They aren't supposed to have 8% body fat.

Washboard abs on a CHICK???? That sh!t REALLY turns you on?
I agree with Str8up, I actually prefer a woman who are a bit soft in the stomach area as opposed to a woman who is hard like a rock and have her bones petruding out.

As for the OP don't take those social network seriously. They are mainly used for younger women to get attention 24 hours a day. Its the equivelent of her going out to a club and be approached by a guy and talk to her because she is hot. If she wanted to cheat she could do so without leaving no evidance. In the end of the day you are the one that is fvcking her and her little internet boyfriend is jacking himself off to sleep. She is 21 stupid naive girl, have fun with her until you get tired of her.
 

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Of course women would never check their boyfriend's account, go through his pockets, inspect his clothing for lipstick......

Ignorance is never bliss. Sagging bits etc are only part of the picture. So he used the word "girlfriend", hardly a hanging offence.

To judge the 40 year old, one should first turn 40, or 45. As long as it is not considered as a serious relationship.
 
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At the risk of being redundant, YOU (the OP) are the one who is immature.

Dude, you're 40. You 'hacked' into your 21 year-old gf's social networking accounts to see if she had an internet boyfriend. What is wrong with this picture???

If you date a girl dont be surprised if you end up playing girls' games.
Oh yeah, he is so bad for dating young women - how dare him!! :rolleyes:

Maddx, you did good! Better to have a 20 year old ho than a 45 year old ho!!!
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm Francisco d'Anconia and I approve of this rant. :up:

LOL. Gosh you guys are funny tonight. I have had a fvcking BAD week, but I am feeling back to my normal self almost, after reading some of these hilarious and truthful posts.

OP.... I have been in your exact same situation before. And as the second smartest sosuaver in the world told me, Im'a tell you. That girl is an immature person, and a validation junkie.

She is not going to change. She doesn't respect you or herself or your relationship. She needs attention like a vampire needs blood. She will accept any attention from anyone, and you will never ever be enough, no matter how much she "loves" you, or cries and pleads otherwise.

I hope you are wise enough to let it go. Save your dignity... plus she is 20 years younger than you, man. SAVE YOUR DIGNITY.
 

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STR8UP said:
You guys are joking, right?

That borders on NASTY.

A woman's body is supposed to be soft. They aren't supposed to have 8% body fat.

Washboard abs on a CHICK???? That sh!t REALLY turns you on?

Damn. That is twice in a row I want to give STR8UP cyber rep.

Those women are gross. They look like men in the body! I am extremely thin without having to work out... but even if I did, I would NEVER do that to my body! They look like dudes! It would be like finding a hot guy... with boobs!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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iqqi said:
Damn. That is twice in a row I want to give STR8UP cyber rep.

Those women are gross. They look like men in the body! I am extremely thin without having to work out... but even if I did, I would NEVER do that to my body! They look like dudes! It would be like finding a hot guy... with boobs!
http://bodyspace.bodybuilding.com/img/user_images/90535/profilepic/527012orig.jpg

im sorry but i dont see how you can think that chic is gross. any guy who saw this chic in the grocery store would stare for a good 5 minutes.

http://msnbcmedia2.msn.com/j/ap/nyr10601121937.widec.jpg

i'll take fit over thin any day. these chics with no meat on their bones are pretty gross. i don't feel like f*cking a skeleton.
 

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joekerr31 said:
http://bodyspace.bodybuilding.com/img/user_images/90535/profilepic/527012orig.jpg

im sorry but i dont see how you can think that chic is gross. any guy who saw this chic in the grocery store would stare for a good 5 minutes.

http://msnbcmedia2.msn.com/j/ap/nyr10601121937.widec.jpg

i'll take fit over thin any day. these chics with no meat on their bones are pretty gross. i don't feel like f*cking a skeleton.
Yeah, those skinny chicks don't do it for me either. Fit to me is athletic such as women who are swimmers, volleyball players, aerobics or yoga instructors and of course cyclist ;). The ones that bodybuild to extreme aren't for me though. However, Rachel McLish who was the very first Ms. Olypia still does it for me. http://www.legendaryfitness.com/rachel_mclish.htm
 
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