I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Sinewy muscle and tendons sticking out everywhere....makes me wanna YACK.ThunderMaverick said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm with Str8up on this one. I might swing my sword in the same room as another guy, but I think banging a chick with a bod like that is borderline gay.STR8UP said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Haha, hors are for everybody!! No such thing as a loyal hor! Hors love everyone and no one, at the same time!! You are just the next pimp in line - know this!!!MaddXMan said:
Very bad idea and a good way to go broke! If you live by money, you will die by money!betterthandead said:
Anyone who knows me can tell you that I won't ever tell anyone to stay away from younger women. They are a gift to older men from the heavensfuzzx said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I agree with Str8up, I actually prefer a woman who are a bit soft in the stomach area as opposed to a woman who is hard like a rock and have her bones petruding out.STR8UP said:
Oh yeah, he is so bad for dating young women - how dare him!!Colossus said:
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STR8UP said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
http://bodyspace.bodybuilding.com/img/user_images/90535/profilepic/527012orig.jpgiqqi said:
Yeah, those skinny chicks don't do it for me either. Fit to me is athletic such as women who are swimmers, volleyball players, aerobics or yoga instructors and of course cyclistjoekerr31 said:
. The ones that bodybuild to extreme aren't for me though. However, Rachel McLish who was the very first Ms. Olypia still does it for me. http://www.legendaryfitness.com/rachel_mclish.htm