"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My GF doesn't Miss Me

Fela Kuti

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Jerry Maguire said:
I've been with my girl for a while now and what I've found is that when we're not together, I have things to do which will take my mind off missing her so it seems like I don't.
But when you see her, give her a kiss etc you know you've missed her...

I'm sure it's the same thing with you guys.
A little hard to explain.
i most agree with you, mate :) Actually she said, "maybe I'll realize that I missed you when we meet again."
 

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Fela, i feel you man.

Look, she's just joking around with you when she said that she doesn't miss you. Look, cause if she didn't, why would she have even of mentioned it? She's just joking around with you, and I know you love her because you're doing the same things I do when it comes to my girl: you're OVER-analyzing her every move. Yea, her love must seem too good to be true, like you can't believe that you have someone like her. You want to explode, but you can't let her know how you feel inside. i know how it is, man. Don't look so hard into things that she does and you'll be okay. She's just joking around with you.
 

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I think I know what the cause is. we text each other too much. so yesterday I proposed her a plan: tomorrow, no contact for the whole day. she agreed.
 

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boo ****ing who...

she's just trying to get a reaction out of you.. normal chick behavior... pay it no attention and proceed with what you were doing before...
 

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To op: You are in by far the best position to judge her intent.

If something feels wrong in your gut, then it probably is.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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