"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My game's pretty rusty could do with some help on this one

bunjy

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As I mention in the thread title my game's pretty rusty and Ive only recently just started 'getting back out there' after a hectic few months with work.

Anyway theres this smoking hot broad who is a friend of a friend of mine. I noticed a while ago that she was always giving me the eye and smiling at me a lot whenever we bumped into each other (which wasnt very often).

I recently added her on fb and started a bit of message banter with her. She seemed quite responsive at first (numerous messages back and forward) but then stopped all of a sudden. The last message I sent her I asked a question and she didnt bother replying. Im confident Id done nothing to put her off as my message game was pretty tight.

What should I do? Obviously Im not gonna message her but the chances of me randomly bumping into her are pretty small as we live in a big city.

Im working on some other girl aswell so shes not my only option but still wouldnt mind banging her so woudl be sweet if I could sort it out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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loveshogun

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Skip the Facebook messages and invite her out.

If you need a safety net, invite her out when you go out with your mutual friend. Then use that time to build rapport.

Keep it light, keep it funny. Just less of the 5th grade notes back-and-forth style communication.
 
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