"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My game's pretty rusty could do with some help on this one

bunjy

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As I mention in the thread title my game's pretty rusty and Ive only recently just started 'getting back out there' after a hectic few months with work.

Anyway theres this smoking hot broad who is a friend of a friend of mine. I noticed a while ago that she was always giving me the eye and smiling at me a lot whenever we bumped into each other (which wasnt very often).

I recently added her on fb and started a bit of message banter with her. She seemed quite responsive at first (numerous messages back and forward) but then stopped all of a sudden. The last message I sent her I asked a question and she didnt bother replying. Im confident Id done nothing to put her off as my message game was pretty tight.

What should I do? Obviously Im not gonna message her but the chances of me randomly bumping into her are pretty small as we live in a big city.

Im working on some other girl aswell so shes not my only option but still wouldnt mind banging her so woudl be sweet if I could sort it out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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loveshogun

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Skip the Facebook messages and invite her out.

If you need a safety net, invite her out when you go out with your mutual friend. Then use that time to build rapport.

Keep it light, keep it funny. Just less of the 5th grade notes back-and-forth style communication.
 
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