"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My game's pretty rusty could do with some help on this one

bunjy

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As I mention in the thread title my game's pretty rusty and Ive only recently just started 'getting back out there' after a hectic few months with work.

Anyway theres this smoking hot broad who is a friend of a friend of mine. I noticed a while ago that she was always giving me the eye and smiling at me a lot whenever we bumped into each other (which wasnt very often).

I recently added her on fb and started a bit of message banter with her. She seemed quite responsive at first (numerous messages back and forward) but then stopped all of a sudden. The last message I sent her I asked a question and she didnt bother replying. Im confident Id done nothing to put her off as my message game was pretty tight.

What should I do? Obviously Im not gonna message her but the chances of me randomly bumping into her are pretty small as we live in a big city.

Im working on some other girl aswell so shes not my only option but still wouldnt mind banging her so woudl be sweet if I could sort it out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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loveshogun

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Skip the Facebook messages and invite her out.

If you need a safety net, invite her out when you go out with your mutual friend. Then use that time to build rapport.

Keep it light, keep it funny. Just less of the 5th grade notes back-and-forth style communication.
 
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