"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My game vs her game

Vincent Freeman

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I have been currently hanging out with this HB I met the other day at a coffee shop and she seems to be a little different than the rest of the chics I have picked up or even dated. By far, this girl is the greatest challenge. She's not only successful (in her career) but she is also very attractive and gets attention every where she goes. However, despite the fact that she probably knows that guys want her, she's actually very genuine and doesn't act like an AW. Now, I was able to lure her over to my corner, however, I was wondering if I could get some advice in how to close the deal and get her head over heels. I was obviously able to spark the interest, but, I would like to know some of the stuff you guys would do to get this girl crazy about you. Pretty much, to conquer her own game which she tries to challenge me with. Let me know what you all think.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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You got me confused.

What exactly IS the problem?


The only thing I can say right now is get her number and ask her out..... You never told us if you've already done that. You're treating this like some silly game where you try and outdo eachother or something. It's kinda funny, actually.

I'm confused
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Kiss her ass. Compliment her, be overly nice to her, be a gentleman, crack a few jokes (make sure they're not corny and are original).
R U serious?
 

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Actually, we have gone out twice. But nothing huge...the park and a coffee shop. It was more of a date to get to know each other as oppose to activity date. However, like I stated earlier, on this next date I want to step things up. Get her totally into me despite her challenging game. Pretty much I hope to raise up the kino and get her craving for more by the end of the date. What you think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tha Realnezz

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Try to initiate physical contact already also.Women like that aren't used to guys being straightforward so soon.


Treat her nice(like you should all women unless they force you otherwise) ...but let her know what you want.That will make put you in her "Real Man" category instead of "Guys I know/kiss my ass" club.
 

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Originally posted by blueangel83
Kiss her ass. Compliment her, be overly nice to her, be a gentleman, crack a few jokes (make sure they're not corny and are original).
*tisk tisk tisk*...you owe me some money for reading that mess.
 

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simple dont kiss her ass like everyone else. I got in a ltr with a girl that had everyone kissing her ass. I acted like a d1ck a lot to her at first im not saying do this but it does work. When i slept in her bed i didnt even try to fvck her for a while. she would keep on calling me up to come over and sleep with her. I think you gotta be her friend first but also let her know what you want but let her do the work shes not use to doing that. And for my story my game kinda of fvcked me over I eventually fvcked her but later on she ended up fvcking someone else probably to get me back so just be careful. I forgave her in began a ltr with her. if she wants to fvck say no the first time then your money. bottom line dont try to hard and be different from every other guy.
 

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You should treat this women nice and start building towards something.

Don't listen to these guys they don't know what they're talking about.


If you guys had any women.....why don't you post your pics?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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