"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, the past week or so i've had 1 date, and about 3 numbers. That's with a 13 hour a day work schedule with no weekends because i have to finish up some things.

It's very insane how easy it is to get a phone number! to set up a date!

It's so simple.

Most of it i've figured out comes from body language. I say almost nothing, and talk to them about stupid crap and they just catch on too my body language.

It confused me the first 2 times, but i'm starting to get it now. Right now, i have really bad hair also.

Work on body language...... I have to work in 5 hours, and i have to take a crap but i'm going to continue on this...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DD said 92% of human communication is none verbal.


It's that. EC, and flirting.


I know exactly what you talking about. Once you got it, women are looking for you.


You're now speaking directly to them, not their persona or whatever.
 

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Most of it i've figured out comes from body language. I say almost nothing, and talk to them about stupid crap
Nah, it's attitude. You're recognizing that you are the man and she is the woman. You're talking about stupid crap because you recognize that women mainly talk about nonsense, not serious issues. You are being what you are and treating her like what she is. Then to top it off, you're going in for the kill (#-close) after meeting her, whereas many guys would be too timid.

Doin' good, man. :up:
 

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BrokenPath said:
Wow, the past week or so i've had 1 date, and about 3 numbers. That's with a 13 hour a day work schedule with no weekends because i have to finish up some things.

It's very insane how easy it is to get a phone number! to set up a date!

It's so simple.

Most of it i've figured out comes from body language. I say almost nothing, and talk to them about stupid crap and they just catch on too my body language.

It confused me the first 2 times, but i'm starting to get it now. Right now, i have really bad hair also.

Work on body language...... I have to work in 5 hours, and i have to take a crap but i'm going to continue on this...
Any tips on working on body language?
 

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ChocolateVanilla said:
Any tips on working on body language?
I just got back on, i'm on a quick home break but basically, it's all experience. I've been in and out of these boards for about 7 years now, continuously going through the trials and tribulations, LTR's, countless COUNTLESS rejections, I can't even imagine the amount of rejections i've had. One day, you just get it.... It all just kind of clicks and women are just completely overwhelmingly magnetically attracted to you. Before, it was more like if the girl knew me for a while she'd like me, and secretly probably want me, but those days are over. It's no longer a guessing game it's just on spot. I almost feel like i get them into a trance now. I talk about almost nothing, just general crap. Crack a joke or two, but it seems like they get entranced, and you can see the lustful stare in their eyes, you can see them play with their hair and generally not know what to really do with themselves except do what i want them too do.

It's gotten to the point of where whenever i see an attractive woman, within about 8-15 seconds she's stopped what she's doing, and within about 1-2 minutes she's dropped her guard and is willing to give me her number. I usually play around for a couple more minutes so when i do call them they say "OH HEY!" Instead of "Hey."

I'll go into further detail with it, I'm basically focused on making money right now and going on with oppurtunities so I have almost no time.

I promise a good post out of this though, I almost can't believe it anymore, I just single them out, and they're mine. It's so great.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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