"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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MY GAME HAS BEEN ON; I'm not even sure why.

BrokenPath

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Wow, the past week or so i've had 1 date, and about 3 numbers. That's with a 13 hour a day work schedule with no weekends because i have to finish up some things.

It's very insane how easy it is to get a phone number! to set up a date!

It's so simple.

Most of it i've figured out comes from body language. I say almost nothing, and talk to them about stupid crap and they just catch on too my body language.

It confused me the first 2 times, but i'm starting to get it now. Right now, i have really bad hair also.

Work on body language...... I have to work in 5 hours, and i have to take a crap but i'm going to continue on this...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stuntmann

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DD said 92% of human communication is none verbal.


It's that. EC, and flirting.


I know exactly what you talking about. Once you got it, women are looking for you.


You're now speaking directly to them, not their persona or whatever.
 

Obsidian

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Most of it i've figured out comes from body language. I say almost nothing, and talk to them about stupid crap
Nah, it's attitude. You're recognizing that you are the man and she is the woman. You're talking about stupid crap because you recognize that women mainly talk about nonsense, not serious issues. You are being what you are and treating her like what she is. Then to top it off, you're going in for the kill (#-close) after meeting her, whereas many guys would be too timid.

Doin' good, man. :up:
 

ChocolateVanilla

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BrokenPath said:
Wow, the past week or so i've had 1 date, and about 3 numbers. That's with a 13 hour a day work schedule with no weekends because i have to finish up some things.

It's very insane how easy it is to get a phone number! to set up a date!

It's so simple.

Most of it i've figured out comes from body language. I say almost nothing, and talk to them about stupid crap and they just catch on too my body language.

It confused me the first 2 times, but i'm starting to get it now. Right now, i have really bad hair also.

Work on body language...... I have to work in 5 hours, and i have to take a crap but i'm going to continue on this...
Any tips on working on body language?
 

BrokenPath

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ChocolateVanilla said:
Any tips on working on body language?
I just got back on, i'm on a quick home break but basically, it's all experience. I've been in and out of these boards for about 7 years now, continuously going through the trials and tribulations, LTR's, countless COUNTLESS rejections, I can't even imagine the amount of rejections i've had. One day, you just get it.... It all just kind of clicks and women are just completely overwhelmingly magnetically attracted to you. Before, it was more like if the girl knew me for a while she'd like me, and secretly probably want me, but those days are over. It's no longer a guessing game it's just on spot. I almost feel like i get them into a trance now. I talk about almost nothing, just general crap. Crack a joke or two, but it seems like they get entranced, and you can see the lustful stare in their eyes, you can see them play with their hair and generally not know what to really do with themselves except do what i want them too do.

It's gotten to the point of where whenever i see an attractive woman, within about 8-15 seconds she's stopped what she's doing, and within about 1-2 minutes she's dropped her guard and is willing to give me her number. I usually play around for a couple more minutes so when i do call them they say "OH HEY!" Instead of "Hey."

I'll go into further detail with it, I'm basically focused on making money right now and going on with oppurtunities so I have almost no time.

I promise a good post out of this though, I almost can't believe it anymore, I just single them out, and they're mine. It's so great.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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