I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You got ripped off while you were trying to defraud others.Originally posted by WillieSacks
There is a way out of it. We are the victim's.....I'll follow up on it later.
Notice he still doesn't explain why people are loading computers, flat panel TVs, and other electronics equipment into his vehicle out of the kindness of their hearts, free of charge.Originally posted by WillieSacks
$2000, yeah right. I wish. That's a bit pricey.
Apparently you didn't read what I posted.Originally posted by WillieSacks
There is a way out of it. We are the victim's.....I'll follow up on it later.
Originally posted by diablo
The thing is, you aren't the victim here. You and him were co-conspirators in an attempt to defraud a banking institution. There's no way you can claim otherwise.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Well you see, my friend said he would put $5000 into both my girlfriends bank account as well as my own. I didn't have to do anything for it, just give him a percentage. Then when I found out that I couldn't in fact get thousands of dollars for free, and the bank tried to get the money back from me, I realized that he was lying and was actually trying to scam me.Originally posted by whistler
You're biggest lesson will come when you try explain your innocence to the FBI.
you are so far from the truth it's not even funny. He was saying we should do that. I just laughed it off. I don't have any flat panel tv's or computers in my household and I have a car, a 24 inch TV in a box won't even fit in my car let alone a flat panel. Keep guessing though.Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Notice he still doesn't explain why people are loading computers, flat panel TVs, and other electronics equipment into his vehicle out of the kindness of their hearts, free of charge.
Were you lying then or are you lying now? You claimed that you "knew people" who gave you flat panel TVs and computers free. I'm not the only person who say you say that.Originally posted by WillieSacks
you are so far from the truth it's not even funny. He was saying we should do that. I just laughed it off. I don't have any flat panel tv's or computers in my household and I have a car, a 24 inch TV in a box won't even fit in my car let alone a flat panel. Keep guessing though.
No, you BOTH attempted to defraud the bank. You even knew as much, because, as you said, part of the scheme involved paying off a fraud investigator.Like I said, there is a way out of it. We are the victims....I already talked to my attorney and he gave me 2 options. When it's all said and done with, I'll tell you guys what happened. We didn't defraud the bank, the scam artist, who avoided me for a month and changed his number (which he doesn't know I have the new one) defrauded the bank. His face is on camera entering money in my account..I've said enough. I'll let you guys know what happened when it's all said and done. Everyone has their own opinions so I'm not mad at you guys but you'll see in the end what happens.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Willy and his girlfriend basically entered into an arrangement with a con-artist where the con artist would help him scam $10,000 out of a bank in exchange for a certain cut of the scammed money, and a certain amount would supposedly go to a fraud officer to cover their tracks. Only the problem was that the con artist took his cut of the money and left Willy and his girl holding the bag. And now the bank wants the $10,000 that Willy and his girlfriend were trying to scam from them.Originally posted by BrWnSugaMan
i didn't get to see the original post before it got deleted. can some1 summarize for me plz?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You're full of sh*t. Not everybody saw what you wrote, but a lot of people did. Why do you keep lying?Originally posted by WillieSacks
Naw bro. Nothing like that. We thought he was putting checks into our accounts. Why do you keep bringing the part up about flat panel tv's and computers. I don't have any flat panel tv's or computers. I already told you that.
What the hell is your problem??? Chill the fukk out. You keep taking $hit out of context. How many times do I have to say I don't have any flat panel tv's or computers, I have 1 24 inch tv and a dvd recorder. You're trying to get me in trouble. I deleted the post on the messageboard because I was advised to. If this is going to court, then why would I have all that info on a messageboard if it can come back and bite me in the @ss somehow. I'm not going to get into a back and forth with you.Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
You're full of sh*t. Not everybody saw what you wrote, but a lot of people did. Why do you keep lying?
Originally posted by Centaurion
Willie, I strongly recommend that you delete this post and try to wipe your ip-adress log. Most likely our new Power-Trippin 'Morally Right' Vigilante Gio will turn you in to the Feds.
Also, do not answer his question. He only wants you to confess.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.