"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My fun school of thought!!

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So how should a man treat a woman?? Good question i think!! This forum contains so many answers yet so many conflict each other...of course there are going to opposing opinions..we all have our own train of thought and rightly so, for god gave free will!!

I'm a 19 year old students going to university, where the chicks are horny. I can honestly say that im a good looking guy who doesnt have much trouble attracting woman, to be honest i've never had, but like most here i have had my fair share of AFC moments in the past where i have scared HB's away after a month or 2!!

Here is my school of thought!! Feel free to agree or to disagree!!

First of all a man should live his own life, i strongly agree which the theory of improvement. Think about it, all the worlds most successful people have incredible lives and have no trouble attrating woman!! Even an old wrinle like Donald Trump!! His babe is SMMOKING HOT!!!!! how did he get her?? he is a WINNER!!!!

A man should have solid game!! This is probably most applicable to my agegroup (under 25's). You should use ****y and funny, have good body language, her keep her competing for you!!Most young girls, (under 25) want what they can't have. I have called some girls up on this and they have admitted it to me!! After all, making yourself less available will increase your percieved value in her mind, and that will make you more ATTRACTIVE!! ATTRACTION IS KEY!!

For god sake, be PATIENT!!!!!! this point is not stressed enough on this forum!! too many guys here try to rush into relationships on this forum!! Play it cool at the start man.. for her to really appreciate you will take time...if she is that hot then she will eventually realise that you are different for not running afer her!!

Be sexual!!! enough said!!!

Enjoy youself!!! live life to the full and ascertain some much needed experience, which you CANNOT GET FROM THE COMPUTER!!!!

last but not least, CONFIDENCE!!! This cannot be said enough times, i was out clubbing last friday and my friend challenged me for a laugh to see how many girls i could make out with in an hour and i tallied 7!!!only one rejection and she didnt actually say no, i just walked away because there was no vibe!! How did i do this?? i jus waled up to them on the dancefloor with my friend with a big smile on my face, did a bit of dancing, took their hands making them do a spin (girls love this) pulled them in and kissed them!!! ONLY WORKS IF YOU SMILE AND BE CONFIDENT THOUGH!!!

BTW I THINK ITS BETTER TO BE A BAD BOY THAN A NICEGUY,THOUGH THIS IS OBVIUSLY NOT ESSENTIAL!! just show your girl you have a wild side to you and you are FUN!!! as pook would put it OOOHH LA LA LA!!!

AGAIN MOST IMPORTANTLY HAVE FUN!! I AM THE DADDY :woo :D


Peace out!! BTW colin farrells the Don Juan of the centuary!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah, i kind of knew all about what you posted. It is good advice for beginners.
but sometimes we post for ourselves instead of for other people. I think you are beginning to realize this and that is good.

game is of course important, but what do you call game?
the tricks and techniques?
or you character and personality?

the latter is the most important.

obviously

Confidence
being a challenge
funny
****y
teasing
flirtyness
sexual state
negging
spontanuity
Leadership
and the list goes on and on and on are all important. but really the most important thing.

IS TO ACTUALLY GET OUT THERE AND TRY.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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