"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My friend's sister

sportguy

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Hey guys,

I have a feeling my friend's sister is into me and I would like to hook up with her as well :up:. The main issue is she a few years older than me, and I don't wanna make the first move because if it doesn't work out, it's just going to be really awkward. Every time I'm over at his house, she always comes to say hi to me and she always wants to talk to me. She even engages the conversations. We even talk on facebook sometimes, but I usually have to engage the conversations.

How would you guys proceed??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheJazz

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As a man, it's kinda your thing to make the first move. If you don't, it'll never happen. Which is a good thing. What the hell are you thinking trying to mack off your "friend"'s sister? Man, what idiot kids will do for casual make outs these days.
 

Single4Life

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She's your friends sister.

You are abusing the access you have to her because of your friendship with him.

So you better make sure he's ok with that sh**, cause you don't know if he is the type of guy to get pissed off at you for that. Some guys don't want their friends fuc**** their sister behind their back.


Once you got that sorted out, then it's easy
 

sodbuster

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IF she never instigates conversation online....she's not into you. At her house,she's just being nice to her little brothers friend
 

Deadly_Ripped

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sodbuster said:
IF she never instigates conversation online....she's not into you. At her house,she's just being nice to her little brothers friend

Wow... seeing someone post this kind of advice makes me thing that my old dogma of "no texting and no internet until her legs have been spread" is rapidly becoming obsolete.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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