"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My friend's sister

sportguy

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Hey guys,

I have a feeling my friend's sister is into me and I would like to hook up with her as well :up:. The main issue is she a few years older than me, and I don't wanna make the first move because if it doesn't work out, it's just going to be really awkward. Every time I'm over at his house, she always comes to say hi to me and she always wants to talk to me. She even engages the conversations. We even talk on facebook sometimes, but I usually have to engage the conversations.

How would you guys proceed??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheJazz

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As a man, it's kinda your thing to make the first move. If you don't, it'll never happen. Which is a good thing. What the hell are you thinking trying to mack off your "friend"'s sister? Man, what idiot kids will do for casual make outs these days.
 

Single4Life

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She's your friends sister.

You are abusing the access you have to her because of your friendship with him.

So you better make sure he's ok with that sh**, cause you don't know if he is the type of guy to get pissed off at you for that. Some guys don't want their friends fuc**** their sister behind their back.


Once you got that sorted out, then it's easy
 

sodbuster

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IF she never instigates conversation online....she's not into you. At her house,she's just being nice to her little brothers friend
 

Deadly_Ripped

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sodbuster said:
IF she never instigates conversation online....she's not into you. At her house,she's just being nice to her little brothers friend

Wow... seeing someone post this kind of advice makes me thing that my old dogma of "no texting and no internet until her legs have been spread" is rapidly becoming obsolete.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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