You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
youre from vegas?? PM me...next time im in Vegas we'll wing!mastacheef said:
Hey man,mastacheef said:
whew k maybe they aren't gayLord Shinra said:
haha but for sure man im always down ill show ya guys a good time to who ever wants to come down just throw me a PM or throw me a message on myspaceYou made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
oh i realize that but they never want to.. like last night for new years the home boy sister was going to her little high school partys and the ones she was talkin about has a crazy amount of babes and they didn't want to go! im like dudes cmon, they ended up at some ones house where my other home boy was mackin on another home boy's "girl" so im not worryed bout him but eh, it was a joke in the first place but i just never have "gone out with the guys to flirt with some cougars" and none of my friends are really down haSmoothTalker said:
:crackup: :crackup:Kev07 said:
Dude I hate that, I'll be chilling with friends during the day and when I want to go to a party or club. They're like no we're too tired or I just don't wanna. I'm sure they're just shy and avoids the situation where they might get rejected. You really need to find yourself some players since guys with girlfriends will not go with you to clubs.mastacheef said:oh i realize that but they never want to.. like last night for new years the home boy sister was going to her little high school partys and the ones she was talkin about has a crazy amount of babes and they didn't want to go! im like dudes cmon, they ended up at some ones house where my other home boy was mackin on another home boy's "girl" so im not worryed bout him but eh, it was a joke in the first place but i just never have "gone out with the guys to flirt with some cougars" and none of my friends are really down ha
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.