Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
youre from vegas?? PM me...next time im in Vegas we'll wing!mastacheef said:
Hey man,mastacheef said:
whew k maybe they aren't gayLord Shinra said:
haha but for sure man im always down ill show ya guys a good time to who ever wants to come down just throw me a PM or throw me a message on myspaceDinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oh i realize that but they never want to.. like last night for new years the home boy sister was going to her little high school partys and the ones she was talkin about has a crazy amount of babes and they didn't want to go! im like dudes cmon, they ended up at some ones house where my other home boy was mackin on another home boy's "girl" so im not worryed bout him but eh, it was a joke in the first place but i just never have "gone out with the guys to flirt with some cougars" and none of my friends are really down haSmoothTalker said:
:crackup: :crackup:Kev07 said:
Dude I hate that, I'll be chilling with friends during the day and when I want to go to a party or club. They're like no we're too tired or I just don't wanna. I'm sure they're just shy and avoids the situation where they might get rejected. You really need to find yourself some players since guys with girlfriends will not go with you to clubs.mastacheef said:oh i realize that but they never want to.. like last night for new years the home boy sister was going to her little high school partys and the ones she was talkin about has a crazy amount of babes and they didn't want to go! im like dudes cmon, they ended up at some ones house where my other home boy was mackin on another home boy's "girl" so im not worryed bout him but eh, it was a joke in the first place but i just never have "gone out with the guys to flirt with some cougars" and none of my friends are really down ha
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.