"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My friends girlfriends don't like me... Why?

PeasantPlayer

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My friends go out there way to tell me this, I think this is funny. So are the dirty looks

Do they think I'll bring chicks around their boyfriends? ‍♂
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My friends go out there way to tell me this, I think this is funny. So are the dirty looks

Do they think I'll bring chicks around their boyfriends? ‍♂
Probably yes... They give you dirty looks because they know girls hotter then them like you...They fear that they will get replaced by a hotter version of themselves.
 

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Shouldn’t “why” be what you ask your friends when they tell you this? Rather than the guessing game you are setting up in this thread.

You’re either too much a player, or too much a prick.
 

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Nah I won't ask my friends if they are really friends they would tell me
 

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I guess you don’t have friends then
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As long as your girlfriend values you more than her "girlfriends" they shouldn't be a problem.
 

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it probably means you aren't chad to them, women don't tend to be nice to guys they don't wanna fvck.
 

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I have the opposite issue: girlfriends and married women hit on me openly in front of their boyfriends and husbands and cuck them publicly. Or, they show up to the event alone and get their game on.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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it probably means you aren't chad to them, women don't tend to be nice to guys they don't wanna fvck.
I've gotten it before because they thought I was the head "cheater" in the group. 10 years later after being a non-cheater, I get it for supposedly being head of the "he mans womans hater club". So it can be any reason.
 
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