"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My friend's down (depressed) and nothing i can do?

solo1

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Anyway i dont know what happened but it's rare to see him like this.

The last class 2 days ago things were fine, then at the last 30 mins of class he started sitting by himself looking all mopey and down. Usually at the end of class we walk together, but he didnt want to this time so we went our own ways.
I thought he was pissed at me or something so i gave him time to cool off.

I thought today's class he'd be back to normal again, but again he's still down. But it didnt appear that he was mad at me, im guessing something to do with girls, his ex (said he was getting back with together last weekend), or just people problems.
So i confronted him and asked him what was wrong and asked if he wanted to talk about it. He said he didnt want to and ended up leaving class a little earlier than me.

Honestly after that class his vibe got to me and i felt a little of his mood. Bah no wonder people love being around optimistic happpy people. Usually if my buddies have problems theyll talk about it, but he's very closed off to people that he makes communication hard.

So Im guessing at this point there's nothing i can do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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S-lemond

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nope not much my friend
 

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Get him so high he forgets who he is.
 

solo1

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Get him so high he forgets who he is.
Thats what i thought too, drag him to a bar and get him butt drunk that he spills the beans. As i told him, if he wants to talk im always around. Right now he needs his alone time, and that i will respect.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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