"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My friend's down (depressed) and nothing i can do?

solo1

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Anyway i dont know what happened but it's rare to see him like this.

The last class 2 days ago things were fine, then at the last 30 mins of class he started sitting by himself looking all mopey and down. Usually at the end of class we walk together, but he didnt want to this time so we went our own ways.
I thought he was pissed at me or something so i gave him time to cool off.

I thought today's class he'd be back to normal again, but again he's still down. But it didnt appear that he was mad at me, im guessing something to do with girls, his ex (said he was getting back with together last weekend), or just people problems.
So i confronted him and asked him what was wrong and asked if he wanted to talk about it. He said he didnt want to and ended up leaving class a little earlier than me.

Honestly after that class his vibe got to me and i felt a little of his mood. Bah no wonder people love being around optimistic happpy people. Usually if my buddies have problems theyll talk about it, but he's very closed off to people that he makes communication hard.

So Im guessing at this point there's nothing i can do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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S-lemond

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nope not much my friend
 

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Get him so high he forgets who he is.
 

solo1

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Originally posted by splinterkb
Get him so high he forgets who he is.
Thats what i thought too, drag him to a bar and get him butt drunk that he spills the beans. As i told him, if he wants to talk im always around. Right now he needs his alone time, and that i will respect.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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