"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My friend thinks "waxing" his arms is gonna get him girls..

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sharpshooter

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Man.. somebody slap some sense into him! He's not even that hairy, yet he went on and on about how if a guy has some hair on his arms, it would automatically be a turn off. He's too deep in his ways, I honestly can't argue or help him anymore. Somehow he thinks girls will just tell him they like him or something, I don't know, he's weird.

what do you guys think

i honestly don't think some hair on the forearms matters at all. It's manly.

In fact..a lot of girls prefer some hair on the man's arm, chest (not chewbacca like, but you know what I mean)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crank_It_Up

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as many girls as I've apporached, I've never had any ask to see if I had hair on my arms, but then I might have just approached the wrong girls
 
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o14liquid

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me....personally i dont liek being hairy hairy. like big foot.
chest hair i keep it clean. my forearm doesn't show much hair so i dont really worry about it. armpit hair i keep it trimed. dont care what ya'll say but i dont want a bush under my arm whenever i lift my arm up when i wear a muscle shirt.
but then again never had a girl asked me to look at my forearm or anything like that....
 
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Hidden-Danjer

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I've heard it all now!

Arm hair?

You what?!?!?

Seriously guys, you can expect girls to look at the type of shoes your wearing, check your teeth aren't black but arm hair?!?

When will people realise... To girls looks just AREN'T important (if she has overcome that trophy guy stage of course).

Girls, as bad as it may be, put personality before looks... So long meet the BASIC laws of personal hygene (and weight dare i say?)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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silverwex

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I cant see how this would attract more girls to him.

I say he should concentrate on his game more so than his arms! :)

lol!
 
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