"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My friend thinks "waxing" his arms is gonna get him girls..

sharpshooter

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Man.. somebody slap some sense into him! He's not even that hairy, yet he went on and on about how if a guy has some hair on his arms, it would automatically be a turn off. He's too deep in his ways, I honestly can't argue or help him anymore. Somehow he thinks girls will just tell him they like him or something, I don't know, he's weird.

what do you guys think

i honestly don't think some hair on the forearms matters at all. It's manly.

In fact..a lot of girls prefer some hair on the man's arm, chest (not chewbacca like, but you know what I mean)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Crank_It_Up

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as many girls as I've apporached, I've never had any ask to see if I had hair on my arms, but then I might have just approached the wrong girls
 

o14liquid

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me....personally i dont liek being hairy hairy. like big foot.
chest hair i keep it clean. my forearm doesn't show much hair so i dont really worry about it. armpit hair i keep it trimed. dont care what ya'll say but i dont want a bush under my arm whenever i lift my arm up when i wear a muscle shirt.
but then again never had a girl asked me to look at my forearm or anything like that....
 

Hidden-Danjer

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I've heard it all now!

Arm hair?

You what?!?!?

Seriously guys, you can expect girls to look at the type of shoes your wearing, check your teeth aren't black but arm hair?!?

When will people realise... To girls looks just AREN'T important (if she has overcome that trophy guy stage of course).

Girls, as bad as it may be, put personality before looks... So long meet the BASIC laws of personal hygene (and weight dare i say?)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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silverwex

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I cant see how this would attract more girls to him.

I say he should concentrate on his game more so than his arms! :)

lol!
 
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