"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My friend says he has a 1000+ notch count of high quality 20 somethings

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I’m just asking what you guys think. My older 40 year old friend claims to have met 1000+ women over the years using online dating websites where he claims to meet all sorts of high quality 20 somethings. He told me he meets them at high end lounges etc. What I’m wondering, questioned him about but received no believable answer is even if you only spent 20 bucks on yourself for drinks and not a dime on the girls 1000 X $20 = $20,000 on first meets alone. Not including gas money or public transportation, time spent driving (unless 1000+ high quality 20 somethings all live within walking distance to his place) I also wondered about condom expenses, hotels, motels even if that’s not a factor as he pulls out or just walks to their place.


My friend claims to be a high value busy man. How in the hell can you be that busy when in say a 10 year period you claim to have dated 1000+ women at 100 per year, 8 a month, 2 each week? That’s not counting the time for work, family, friends, holidays, gatherings, appointments, housework, shopping, and everything else other people with busy lives have going on. (And let’s not forget all the phone calls and texting to these 1000+ girls and time spent emailing them on multiple dating sites to get their numbers.)


He told me he goes to their places instead. Ok. So let’s say he’s trying to play it safe, claims he’s high value yet chases these women by going to all of their places. I asked him if out of all these younger women they’ve never had boyfriends or other guys after them and how he’s never managed to run into them or the women themselves were crazy and caused him drama due to him pumping and dumping with all the #metoo, feminist fake rape stuff, and hell hath no fury like a woman scorned by a high value man. Wouldn’t that be playing Russian roulette with a loaded gun? He of all people should know since he’s already been divorced.


I’m asking if what my friend claims is even possible as he says he’s never had anything bad happen because these girls all just know he’s high value. I personally think he lives in a dream world.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Not gonna read that whole thing. No way he ****ed over a thousand bitches. Maybe a couple hundred, but over a thousand? Nah, I don’t believe it. You will just get bored of it and not be able to feel anything after a while
 

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Dam charlatans! Oh wait that's me.

Good to have you back. Feeling like oysters this weekend?
 

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Dam charlatans! Oh wait that's me.

Good to have you back. Feeling like oysters this weekend?

You could have met and even taken a picture with your idol to post on SS as I was out getting oysters, but you ran off with your tail between your rain checked legs when I told you to be about it rather than just type about it. Now you’re counter offering like a woman in heat? LMAO


You snooze you lose lil guy.
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Not gonna read that whole thing. No way he ****ed over a thousand bitches. Maybe a couple hundred, but over a thousand? Nah, I don’t believe it. You will just get bored of it and not be able to feel anything after a while
If your focused it's easy .
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sounds like the typical i caught a fish "this big" story where everytime it gets told, the fish grows in length. I would think after about 500 or so it would be literally impossible to detemine an exact count
 

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Sounds like the typical i caught a fish "this big" story where everytime it gets told, the fish grows in length. I would think after about 500 or so it would be literally impossible to detemine an exact count
One could estimate how many per year on average and multply the years. Many of the guys have consistent systems they run year after year . So it might fluctuate but guarantee a minimum lay count per year . .

I frat boys can be easily over 100 thru college alone. And have residuals for many years.
 

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One could estimate how many per year on average and multply the years. Many of the guys have consistent systems they run year after year . So it might fluctuate but guarantee a minimum lay count per year . .

I frat boys can be easily over 100 thru college alone. And have residuals for many years.
The longer a time period that goes by the less clearly you remember things. Estimates are all great and everything but by the time you are 40 those 50 chicks you banged in college turn into 250
 

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Sounds like the typical i caught a fish "this big" story where everytime it gets told, the fish grows in length. I would think after about 500 or so it would be literally impossible to detemine an exact count
OP is Naughty Ninja, talking about me.

It's a guesstimation. Active dating weekends 5+ dates (not lays) * active weeks = approximate number
 

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tell him next time hookers don't count, big chances are he is lying, if not he is paying in one way or another, with makes him a sucker
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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OP is Naughty Ninja, talking about me.

It's a guesstimation. Active dating weekends 5+ dates (not lays) * active weeks = approximate number
That dude still makes fake profiles to come up with crazy stuff? Lmao...wow guess he has a lot of free time on his hands
 

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That dude still makes fake profiles to come up with crazy stuff? Lmao...wow guess he has a lot of free time on his hands
He has a crush on me, especially when I made dinner plans to meet him in an oyster bar in midtown, and then flaked. He had oysters alone that night.

LOL
 

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He has a crush on me, especially when I made dinner plans to meet him in an oyster bar in midtown, and then flaked. He had oysters alone that night.

LOL
Hahaha hahaha....you should have invited some women along and excused him from the convo
 

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Troll OP or not, my friend claimed that one of his gym buddies (a middle aged guy) got a divorce and then had sex with 300 women in one year.

Apparently it was so full-on that at times one woman had left his house like 10 minutes ago when he had the next one over. Thing is though, although the guy was having all of the sex, he was emotionally and mentally just a completely broken man.

The girls weren't high standard, it became a total routine for him, sex meant nothing and he wasn't even enjoying it. It was just this weird backlash to losing his wife. Bet he got a few STIs too...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Troll OP or not, my friend claimed that one of his gym buddies (a middle aged guy) got a divorce and then had sex with 300 women in one year.

Apparently it was so full-on that at times one woman had left his house like 10 minutes ago when he had the next one over. Thing is though, although the guy was having all of the sex, he was emotionally and mentally just a completely broken man.

The girls weren't high standard, it became a total routine for him, sex meant nothing and he wasn't even enjoying it. It was just this weird backlash to losing his wife. Bet he got a few STIs too...
A "player" in the game in Dallas Texas showed me his system of overscheduling dates . He had a cache of "square" types with good jobs and high interest . He'd schedule 3-4 meetups at the same time and flake out on a few of them. Occasionally leave one and go to another. I really thought it was not my style, but that's what the females run to .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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