"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I wish we could vote people out of the forum.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thugo, maybe some dudes are quick to call people AFC's and such. However, maybe I can better state what they want to say. EVERYONE has had "the one." Trust me, I have been there. However, you should not let that haunt you. It WILL cause problems for you.

Not all DJ's are out to get a good piece of @ss. Trust me, I get the ladies, but im not out to have a bunch of robots on my jock. Many DJ's want LTR's too. However, your mention of "haunting" sounds like a barrier. Its no wonder that you have not found the right girl. The other girl is still haunting you.

Now, when you see another girl, your past sweetie is still haunting your mind. Even worse, the more you keep this haunting feeling... the more your mind will find positive points about that "one." Who can really measure up to that?

There are millions, billions of girls. Instead of finding someone to do your errands... find SOMEONE.

My suggestion: Let the past go. As the pharcyde once said, "let your free form, form free." Get it? Let her go. Being a DJ is about improving yourself and not being able to brag about some bytch that gets a beer for you and how much you don't like her. Man, no wonder you have not found the "right one."

Chillax brotha and don't leave the forums. Brush your shoulders off bro... brush your shoulders off.
 
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