"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thugo, maybe some dudes are quick to call people AFC's and such. However, maybe I can better state what they want to say. EVERYONE has had "the one." Trust me, I have been there. However, you should not let that haunt you. It WILL cause problems for you.

Not all DJ's are out to get a good piece of @ss. Trust me, I get the ladies, but im not out to have a bunch of robots on my jock. Many DJ's want LTR's too. However, your mention of "haunting" sounds like a barrier. Its no wonder that you have not found the right girl. The other girl is still haunting you.

Now, when you see another girl, your past sweetie is still haunting your mind. Even worse, the more you keep this haunting feeling... the more your mind will find positive points about that "one." Who can really measure up to that?

There are millions, billions of girls. Instead of finding someone to do your errands... find SOMEONE.

My suggestion: Let the past go. As the pharcyde once said, "let your free form, form free." Get it? Let her go. Being a DJ is about improving yourself and not being able to brag about some bytch that gets a beer for you and how much you don't like her. Man, no wonder you have not found the "right one."

Chillax brotha and don't leave the forums. Brush your shoulders off bro... brush your shoulders off.
 
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