"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my friend just found out he was cheated on

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he then proceeded to not sleep that night, fume at work, go home and hit pads, then get a friend and go over to the other guy's house and proceed to beat the **** out of him.

Then called his former gf over to his place with all of their mutual friends (she did not know he knew). He then confronted her calling her out on the cheating in front of everyone, she broke down crying and then he told her to f off out of his life in front of all their mutual friends.

He said he feels much better now.

* he is 24, was with the girl 2-3 years.

** I hope he does not get in trouble with the law. He said he feels much better now and has let it out. I am not endorsing this behaviour but showing the other side to the 'forget and move on' mentality.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yendor28 said:
he then proceeded to not sleep that night, fume at work, go home and hit pads, then get a friend and go over to the other guy's house and proceed to beat the **** out of him.

Then called his former gf over to his place with all of their mutual friends (she did not know he knew). He then confronted her calling her out on the cheating in front of everyone, she broke down crying and then he told her to f off out of his life in front of all their mutual friends.

He said he feels much better now.

* he is 24, was with the girl 2-3 years.

** I hope he does not get in trouble with the law. He said he feels much better now and has let it out. I am not endorsing this behaviour but showing the other side to the 'forget and move on' mentality.

Who cares. Let the b!tches cheat. I'm never staying faithful to one girl again.

And your bud is gonna get assault and battery up to 5 years in prison. Hope she's worth getting assraped and he better pray it's his first offense for ANYTHING. Are you in the US?
 

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What can you say? pretty much textbook AFC stuff.

Chump meets chick, chick meets a worthier mate, chump still believing chick/s are a rare commodity flips out and causes physical harm to another etc etc.

Yay for us I guess, but whats the point of the post?, we see and hear this sh!t all the time.
 

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He made a total stupid move beating the guy down. He better pray the guy doesn't report him otherwise he is definetely going to the slammer.
 

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Especially if he's got priors. I know if I got assault charge I'd be doing at least a year.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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its much cooler if he just show that no hard feelings..the girls ego will be in deep sht
 

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yendor28 said:
he then proceeded to not sleep that night, fume at work, go home and hit pads, then get a friend and go over to the other guy's house and proceed to beat the **** out of him.

Then called his former gf over to his place with all of their mutual friends (she did not know he knew). He then confronted her calling her out on the cheating in front of everyone, she broke down crying and then he told her to f off out of his life in front of all their mutual friends.

He said he feels much better now.

* he is 24, was with the girl 2-3 years.

** I hope he does not get in trouble with the law. He said he feels much better now and has let it out. I am not endorsing this behaviour but showing the other side to the 'forget and move on' mentality.
Beating a man up because he had sex with his girl? That is VERY stupid!

The only time I see something like that acceptable is if they had sex in his bed.

Yes, he can and should get in trouble with the law.
 

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yendor28 said:
* he is 24, was with the girl 2-3 years.
I don't get why some of you guys do this. Which one was it? 2 or 3? That's a big difference. It's almost like catching you in a lie. It shows you fukkers just make stuff up sometimes.

"Umm, well let's see, first I'll say it was my friend, then we'll say we've been together 2 or 3 years, because I don't really remember...."
 

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Beating a man up because he had sex with his girl? That is VERY stupid!

The only time I see something like that acceptable is if they had sex in his bed.

Yes, he can and should get in trouble with the law.
What if they were married? Acceptable then? LOL
 

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It's the GIRL'S fault, not the guy's ... no one put a gun to her head and said "spread 'em." Good grief this world is full of AFCs.

Also, age 24 and with a girl three years? What an AFC ... in the prime of his life and he's obsessed with one girl. What a complete loser.

He's yet another candidate for AFC of the year. What a p-ssy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thugo said:
What if they were married? Acceptable then? LOL
She is married. She is the one that should TRY and put a stop to it.

Now, if the guy is INSISTING and INSTIGATING and she cannot stop him...then it is the husband's duty to protect (PROTECT) his wife/woman.
 

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WestCoaster said:
It's the GIRL'S fault, not the guy's ... no one put a gun to her head and said "spread 'em." Good grief this world is full of AFCs.

Also, age 24 and with a girl three years? What an AFC ... in the prime of his life and he's obsessed with one girl. What a complete loser.

He's yet another candidate for AFC of the year. What a p-ssy.
I wouldn't call it the "prime of his life"...but more of the "experimental prime". I would say "prime of his life" would be that stage in which he reaches a combination of things such as good health, physical fitness, economical/education/professional stability, knowing where he TRULY wants to be, etc. Typically the mid 30s to perhaps 42?
 

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who cares... I tell her if she cheats shes gone. If she does I'll just laugh at her bang her one more time and kick her out. I've cheated on her. Maybe she's cheated on me. If I don't find out I don't give a f1ck anymore.
 

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Also, age 24 and with a girl three years? What an AFC ... in the prime of his life and he's obsessed with one girl. What a complete loser.

He's yet another candidate for AFC of the year. What a p-ssy.
That's bull$h!*t. That's what I thought when I was 24 now look at me. I treated the best girl I ever found to this day like crap, and she's gone forever and it's haunting me. She didn't cheat or anything neither did I, I just didn't treat her right. I swear some of you guys are gonna be old and lonely still posting here. I learned my lesson... a great damn honest beautiful girl that speaks English is hard as f-ck to find and next time i'm not f-cking up. Another guy got my girl and married her she never looked back at my direction. He was smart because she's going to be hard as hell to top especially since I met her at college. How the f-ck am I supposed to meet college chics if I'm not in college anymore. Hang out at the mall? Stalk college campuses like I'm a student? Go on myspace.com? Give me a ****ing break. The pool of good women/keepers is getting smaller and I'm getting older.
 
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Thugo ... Millions of women in the world, actually billions, there are millions whom you could fall in love with. You've bought into the soul mate myth. Your words mean nothing to me because you have oneitis and are an AFC.

I'd suggest on becoming a reformed AFC (RAFC).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WestCoaster said:
Thugo ... Millions of women in the world, actually billions, there are millions whom you could fall in love with. You've bought into the soul mate myth. Your words mean nothing to me because you have oneitis and are an AFC.

I'd suggest on becoming a reformed AFC (RAFC).

Lol.. it has nothing to do with being AFC. It's not like I'm single and have no women and never get laid. It's about getting tired of the game and wanting to find 1 woman I feel happiness with. And I'd like to find her ASAP. You want to be a player forever. I don't. Simple.
 

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i hope the AFC goes to jail strict laws for that player hater **** should be established.
 

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Thugo ... I don't want to be a player forever, but you've bought into the myth that your ex-beyotch is the "one."

You're delussional ... and an AFC.
 

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It's the GIRL'S fault, not the guy's ... no one put a gun to her head and said "spread 'em."
Yendor28: Your friend beating that guy up was an impulsive act of immaturity. There are very few scenarios where fighting over or because of a girl is acceptible.

People do crazy sh!t in the passion of post-betrayal. Mild-mannered guys can become raging, obsessive lunatics. When the full moon of infidelity comes out of the clouds...watch out.
 

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Thugo ... I don't want to be a player forever, but you've bought into the myth that your ex-beyotch is the "one."

You're delussional ... and an AFC.

Do AFC's have girls f-cking them every night cooking, doing their laundry and running all my errands? The problem is I don't really LIKE any of them. As in ZERO feelings for these girls in my life right now. So if one comes along that gives me that again I'm going to keep her, and date her exclusively. That's all I'm saying. Right now they just get annoying. I don't even want to talk to them when they call half the time. Annoying unless she's cooking cleaning or other duties, like bringing me beer right now for the Oriole's/Red Sox game in an hour. If so then I'm AFC. F-ck it. Guess I haven't studied the bible enough.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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