"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My former oneitis girl has returned

KEddie

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I no longer have oneitis for this girl, but I used to, big time.

Anyway last week she texted me and said, "what are you doing on next tuesday? you want to have a late lunch or possibly dinner?"

So I replied, " ok, how about we go to O'Malley's so we can sit outside"

Now it's Monday, and still no word back from her. WTF. If she wasn't serious she shouldn't have asked me.

What do you guys think? Should I give her a call tommorrow or something, or do what my gut is telling me and just let it go?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ObieJuan

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It's a game- she was fishing for an ego boost and you just gave it to her. Just ignore her from now on. Don't call or return her calls/messages. You are thinking logically- and with women logic does not apply. Whatever relationship you had is over. It's for the greater good of self-improvement, anyway. Learn from your mistakes, move on.
 

Docs

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Haha, don't worry if she replies or not, and if you're going to meet somewhere, PICK HER UP at HER HOUSE, because it reduces flaking.

And, your focus is to flirt, and not take anything to heart. Consider it fun.
 
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