"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My former oneitis girl has returned

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KEddie

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I no longer have oneitis for this girl, but I used to, big time.

Anyway last week she texted me and said, "what are you doing on next tuesday? you want to have a late lunch or possibly dinner?"

So I replied, " ok, how about we go to O'Malley's so we can sit outside"

Now it's Monday, and still no word back from her. WTF. If she wasn't serious she shouldn't have asked me.

What do you guys think? Should I give her a call tommorrow or something, or do what my gut is telling me and just let it go?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ObieJuan

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It's a game- she was fishing for an ego boost and you just gave it to her. Just ignore her from now on. Don't call or return her calls/messages. You are thinking logically- and with women logic does not apply. Whatever relationship you had is over. It's for the greater good of self-improvement, anyway. Learn from your mistakes, move on.
 
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Haha, don't worry if she replies or not, and if you're going to meet somewhere, PICK HER UP at HER HOUSE, because it reduces flaking.

And, your focus is to flirt, and not take anything to heart. Consider it fun.
 
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