"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My former oneitis girl has returned

KEddie

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I no longer have oneitis for this girl, but I used to, big time.

Anyway last week she texted me and said, "what are you doing on next tuesday? you want to have a late lunch or possibly dinner?"

So I replied, " ok, how about we go to O'Malley's so we can sit outside"

Now it's Monday, and still no word back from her. WTF. If she wasn't serious she shouldn't have asked me.

What do you guys think? Should I give her a call tommorrow or something, or do what my gut is telling me and just let it go?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

ObieJuan

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It's a game- she was fishing for an ego boost and you just gave it to her. Just ignore her from now on. Don't call or return her calls/messages. You are thinking logically- and with women logic does not apply. Whatever relationship you had is over. It's for the greater good of self-improvement, anyway. Learn from your mistakes, move on.
 

Docs

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Haha, don't worry if she replies or not, and if you're going to meet somewhere, PICK HER UP at HER HOUSE, because it reduces flaking.

And, your focus is to flirt, and not take anything to heart. Consider it fun.
 
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